fullc Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 I just recently found out that during our relationship (about 6 months before we broke up) my then boyfriend got drunk and told another girl (that he had history with) that he loved her and wanted to be with her, and attempted to make a move on her. I'm not sure if anything physical actually happened. When I confronted him about this he denied that he physically cheated and claimed that he doesn't remember what he said to the girl. I'm over him. The way he's treated me since the breakup has made it clear he has no respect for me as a person and I have no interest in ever getting back with him. However, I'm still struggling with this new knowledge. This was in the middle of our relationship, and it makes me question everything he ever told me and everything about our relationship. I had been with him earlier that night at a family holiday party, talking with his parents and grandparents and family friends. We exchanged Christmas gifts before I went home for the night. I know that we're over, and this doesn't change anything about our current relationship. I don't know why I still feel so betrayed and angry am just having trouble coming to grips with this.
bluechocolate Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 When I confronted him about this .... Why are you confronting him about something he did in the past when you are now no longer going out with him ? I'm over him. You sure about that ? Because this ... I don't know why I still feel so betrayed and angry am just having trouble coming to grips with this. .... would indicate that you're not. 1
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