Fridaymorning Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 Me and my ex have started talking, I asked him how he felt about me and said that he wouldn't want to get back in to a relationship just yet. He then went on to argue with me over me getting with another boy (after we'd broken up) he said he heard rumours about it and wanted to know what happened. After I told him he said that there was a chance for us but now there isn't because of what happened. I don't understand, I've done nothing wrong but he's made me feel really guilty about it, and has made me feel like because of this, the chance we had has completely gone. I don't know what to do
Lizrd3000 Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 How long did you wait until you got with this other dude? I'd get pissed off too, to be quite honest, if my girlfriend would get with another dude in less than a week. It'd give me alot of insecurity about whether she really did love me, or if it wasn't all that serious. or I wouldn't trust her anymore because I know how easily she jumps from guy to guy. If you don't know how he's feeling, you should reflect and put yourself in his shoes. on the other hand, if it was quite a bit of time before you got with this other dude, he's being really silly.
Author Fridaymorning Posted October 14, 2013 Author Posted October 14, 2013 It was around 2 months after we broke up I got with another guy, about 2 weeks after we broke up he had already got with another girl and had told me he had feelings for her, I don't know if he's just angry at the moment and will come around to feeling the way he did before I told him exactly what happened ?
Criticality Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 So... He thought you guys might have a chance, yet only calls after he heard you're seeing somebody? Yeah that doesn't make sense, does it? And then he tells you he's not ready YET to get back with you, and after you confirm that you're seeing somebody else, he tells you that you blew it and NOW you won't get back together? Doesn't sound like you dodged anything except a controlling, possessive ex who might not want his toys anymore but sure as hell won't have anybody else play with them. He only told you that cause he tried to hurt your feelings after the breakup. That's petty and really messed up. 2
fancy feast Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 He is a man child. You didn't ruin anything (except for maybe his narcissistic perception of reality).
Lizrd3000 Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 So... He thought you guys might have a chance, yet only calls after he heard you're seeing somebody? Yeah that doesn't make sense, does it? And then he tells you he's not ready YET to get back with you, and after you confirm that you're seeing somebody else, he tells you that you blew it and NOW you won't get back together? Doesn't sound like you dodged anything except a controlling, possessive ex who might not want his toys anymore but sure as hell won't have anybody else play with them. He only told you that cause he tried to hurt your feelings after the breakup. That's petty and really messed up. I agree with this person.
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