Sososad Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 Was discussing this with a friend and we couldn't agree so maybe you guys can Help . I'll try keep this short and sweet ! 2 year relationship comes to and . Silly disputes over not enough time for each other And feeling second best to work & family commitments. Acted immature and childish and decided to end things Silly I know ! But hey hindsight is great now. So a couple of days later I try apologise Try to be civil and try make some right of this . I get nothing but total abuse and told to get lost at every attempt . This goes on for a couple of days and it's pointless she's just lashing out And nothing's getting sorted . So I accept her decision and walk away . Couple of days later I get a text asking is it me texting her off a new number To be honest in still p'd off .. And reply with "NO" So another two days later I get a text completely Random saying about her relative that died 3 months ago . I don't even think she was close . I ignored the text . Thinking now she was looking to open communication again and maybe Not in anger way. That was a week ago I've heard nothing since . Have I really messed up ? Think she will reach out again? I get the concept of no contact I was trying that. But this whole idea someone texts and says I'm sorry I want you back isn't that easy with egos and pride and never mind the risk of possible rejection . Not everything is breadcrumbs , or is it? Reconciliation has to start somewhere !? I think I should have replied and been quite down since .. Just need advice or opinions anything welcomed Good, bad or indifferent thanks for reading. I do want her back !
Lizrd3000 Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 If she loves you, and REALLY wanted you, she would put her ego and pride aside and let you know she wants to get back with you. if her ego and pride is bigger than her love for you, she was not worth it in the end. NC is the way to go.
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