Dox Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 Met this girl at a club, she was grinding on me and ****. The end of the night she gave me her number. 2 hours later i was still awake drinking and I texted her. This is what I said Me- "you were so wasted you probably don't remember me lol" Her- "hahaha I wasn't that wasted" Me- "lol so do you regret giving out your phone number yet?" Her- "no?" Me- "Any chance seeing you again next week?" Her- "lol not sure" Me- "ill take that as a yes then" Her- "haha i never go to (name of club) so prob not" Me- "who said anything about (club) lol. in town?" She stops responding i figured it was 5am she probably fell asleep. 2 days later though I still haven't received a text or reply from her. What now?
theothersully Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 You have to start over like you never met her. You need to strike up a real conversation before just asking her out. Make her want it.
Lansing Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 Why wouldn't she remember you. Even if she were drunk you are an awesome guy... 2nd, why would she regret giving you her number.. Dude, you thought you were being funny/cocky but you come across as insecure in those messages and the girl probably just didn't want to bother. Don't think she will respond to you. Worth giving her a phone call if you can come across as confident on the call but regardless learn for next time. Also, try to establish where you guys are going to go WHEN you meet her. Like, you find out she likes art, tell her about a cool art show coming up and suggest you go together type thing.
theothersully Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 If that fails, have her round up some friends and you do the same. Know of and tell her about this great place to go out. Tell her to come with her friends, then proceed as normal in person asking her out again that night.
elmichi Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 Yeah, as a girl, I would not have liked the "so do you regret giving out your phone number" line. Should have just asked how her weekend was or something.. gone away from the club scene.
deathandtaxes Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 Your texts are way too passive aggressive. A super turn off. She probably reread them later and went 'wtf is wrong with this guy?' Man up, be assertive, and ask her out if that's what you want to do. "Any chance of seeing you this week?" So passive it's sad. You're the guy. You ask her out. Pick a date, time, and place. If she's interested, she'll say yes.
Phantom888 Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 You won't see her again. When she sobered up, she went back to her boyfriend.
Author Dox Posted October 15, 2013 Author Posted October 15, 2013 lol yea I was pretty drunk when i texted her. I wanna text her again and maybe invite her and her friends that she was with to my friends birthday at a club. Any chance i could salvage this?
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