Heheh, looks like I was right. Karma can be a [rhymes with witch]

[travelonic]

Through the grapevine - ok, my ex bothering me on Facebook - the obvious, that the relationship she is in now is rocky, and unstable. Heh. Soon after, I found out why - quite by accident.... thanks to noticing in the comments for a video I was watching a comment by her... turns out the conflicts going on between her current whom she had the EA with [/ still is having] is because he isn't as understanding of her ... issues ... as I was. Now she has gone and developed a crush on another guy at the college we went to, and is essentially repeating history again [not that she said that].

 

My, my, my, history is repeating itself, pity.

 

Granted, I kinda did a stupid thing. I **impulsively** made a response to her comment, in which she said she wanted to prevent what happened last time, with me, stating how this is EXACTLY HOW it happened last time - and how it was funny that she left someone who understood her for someone who wasn't as understanding, and now is repeating herself with somebody more understanding... when she cheated on someone who was like that in the first place [and asked if there was anything wrong with this picture, or if it was just me].

 

Ah well, that was to be expected, I can't resist stirring the pot sometimes. On the bright side... she posted her comment, it turns out, a day before I posted my reply impulsively... AFTER my comment was made hers got so many downvotes that it now has This comment has recieved too many negative votes. (click to show comment), which happens after 6-10 negative votes on a Youtube comment happens, and mine has 3 thumbs up. It is so hard to resist feeling warm and fuzzy in that.

Edited October 14, 2013 by travelonic

[Mz_sassy_77]

How long you guys been broken up for?

[travelonic]

How long you guys been broken up for?

 

Next month marks 1 year... and one hell of a rollercoaster it has been... *phew*

[reddragon588]

Next month marks 1 year... and one hell of a rollercoaster it has been... *phew*

 

After a year, it may be time to move past petty comments on Facebook. She is clearly not taking time to heal herself... two new relationships in that same year... same issues ending all of them...

[ConfusedHumanBeing]

Mine is on her third in a year. At this point, none of it really matters. You shouldn't be concerned with what she is doing and it seems like you still are. In fact, this thread looks pretty weird if I do say so myself.

[travelonic]

She is clearly not taking time to heal herself...

 

Considering how fast everything happened last year, and how she didn't really take any time to contemplate what is going on, whether she is doing the right thing or not, not thinking of the consequences, and of course burying it all - which I thought was the case from the start - I am not at all surprised. Feeling what I've felt, the sheer amount of pain involved, etc, it's hard, strangely, to not be empathetic for the guy who is about to run into this problem - he is, after all, a friend.

 

Hopefully this girl I met recently on an online dating site, if we start dating of course, doesn't fall into the same hole as my ex, and hope she doesn't do the same thing this ex did. A double whammy in 2-3 years would be too much to bear. ;_;

Edited October 15, 2013 by travelonic

[templeofmax]

What did she do?

[Ireallydontknow]

How old are you two?

[travelonic]

What did she do?

 

Cheated. Affair. 'Nuff said.

 

How old are you two?

 

We are what comedian George Carlin would probably refer to as "Really Young ****s"

 

She is 20 1/2. I just turned 24. She was my 2nd relationship, though the first one had been really 1-sided, went stale as a result of that and other things [and the ex in that relationship and I broke it off mutually], I was this ex's first.