kobeparker939 Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 Okay, so I dated this girl again after we had a falling out for a cpl weeks. 2 dates go by and she gradually begins to go cold which is all good, so I go cold as well and leave her alone happy to move on. Anyway I've got this book she lent me which she really cherished. Msged her today to try and return this book and rid myself of her permanently, and I can see that she got the msg on Whatsapp but she still doesnt reply? Its been 6 hrs. I don't get what she's playing at. I just sent her a closed text. "Hi hope you've been well, need to return your book, let me know if you'd like me to just post it through work"
deathandtaxes Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 Just mail the book. No need to give it in person. No communication is needed. You both went cold - why even bother giving it back?
Atem Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 Okay, so I dated this girl again after we had a falling out for a cpl weeks. 2 dates go by and she gradually begins to go cold which is all good, so I go cold as well and leave her alone happy to move on. Anyway I've got this book she lent me which she really cherished. Msged her today to try and return this book and rid myself of her permanently, and I can see that she got the msg on Whatsapp but she still doesnt reply? Its been 6 hrs. I don't get what she's playing at. I just sent her a closed text. "Hi hope you've been well, need to return your book, let me know if you'd like me to just post it through work" Second what everybody said - it's just a book. Also, she couldn't have cherished it so much since she gave it to you after only 2 dates (it's unlikely that, after 2 dates, you were important enough to her to give you something that she really really likes just like that). Also, you seem to be fishing for contact, bub. If you want to see her again, be a man and say it to her straight. Then, if she rejects you, move on. If she sais yes, go from there. If this was just about the book, you'd forget much more quickly about it - interestingly, I was in a similar situation back in the day and I did forget after I pinged the girl once. She was a classmate tho and we didn't date, so that made it easier - now I kinda wonder what actually happened to that book...
Assasda Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 ^ Yeah, he's seeking a contact. Just give her the book. Say something like "We can hang out again, if you wanna have some fun" and just walk away and dont text or call her
todreaminblue Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 i agree with th eposter who said she must not need it......if she does she would contact you and ask for it back....you can assume when someone doesnt ask for something they dont want it or need it any more.....and as far as another person said about cherishing something special and giving it to someone else.....its exactly what i do when i like someone i give them something i cherish............. i cherish people more than possessions...i have given away a lot of things ...dont regret any of my gifts even when the relationship hasnt continued ...i am glad i gave something special to me .whether they appreciate it or not ..most do.......i appreciated them at the time and i have a really firm etiquette on returning gifts i give...dont do it.............i would be offended if they did return it... ..send the book to her or leave it in her mailbox if you want to be rid of her....no contact necessary......and i doubt she will contact you about returning it but if you are returning the book for contact reasons..because you like her and want to talk to her..man up and tell her the truth...dont use the book as a go between....deb
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