thewrongonee Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 Hello LS. I have a strange problem that is occuring in my life which i hope to soon figure out and deal with. I am currently dating a girl that i met in class, and this recently started hapenning. In the starting She told me she was seeing someone for 7 years, and shes in a commited girlfriend. I told her thats okay with me, and told her my goodbyes and farewells. She was crying when this happen, and then she told me that she does have feeling for me.She said shes moving on, and she needs time to do so. I agreed, and we;ve been doing good far since, even started on our sex life. Ultimately, the problem is that our relationship does so great and things seem as if they are going to work out. But, her ex keeps bugging her by calling her constantly, making her feel guilty. ( her ex lives in india and cannot be with her at all). She acts as if we are good but then when her ex calls all sad and depressed, she goes to the " i dont think i am ready to move on yet". and that makes me feel as if we are starting all over again. She wants to move on, she even proves that she loves me. Its just hard for me, because I am caught in the middle of all this crossfire and i get my emotions hurt.
Author thewrongonee Posted October 14, 2013 Author Posted October 14, 2013 I feel like we are really good as a couple, but when this happens, and she goes through this, i feel bad. I like her, and want to be with her but it still hurts me, and i hate that. What should i do? I want to tell her that i want us to have time apart, or tell her that ill be with her helping her all the way. I really like her, and so does she. But this guilt in her life i believe is killing me.
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