sjm Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 If you knew your ex was stalking your social media, what would you do? Is there anything specific you would post? If I were to hope for reconciliation one day, would this be a good sign?
Brown-Eyez Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 sometimes i post things that he & I talked about like updates and stuff without actually acknowledging him directly in some sick way, i hope he reads it and knows I'm talking to him I hope that doesn't last much longer i know the more i get him out of my head the better I'll be..
Simon Phoenix Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 If you knew your ex was stalking your social media, what would you do? Is there anything specific you would post? If I were to hope for reconciliation one day, would this be a good sign? I wouldn't post anything specific and it doesn't necessarily mean a thing when it comes to reconciliation. Just because they might be keeping tabs on you doesn't mean they are interested in coming back to you. If anything, they might be weaning themselves off you in that way. 1
Author sjm Posted October 14, 2013 Author Posted October 14, 2013 I wouldn't post anything specific and it doesn't necessarily mean a thing when it comes to reconciliation. Just because they might be keeping tabs on you doesn't mean they are interested in coming back to you. If anything, they might be weaning themselves off you in that way. What do you mean by weaning themselves of you? I have never checked his stuff, too scared of what I might find. Ignorance is bliss..
Author sjm Posted October 14, 2013 Author Posted October 14, 2013 sometimes i post things that he & I talked about like updates and stuff without actually acknowledging him directly in some sick way, i hope he reads it and knows I'm talking to him I hope that doesn't last much longer i know the more i get him out of my head the better I'll be.. I just post stuff of me looking really happy.. and pretty in hope that he will see and miss me
Simon Phoenix Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 What do you mean by weaning themselves of you? I have never checked his stuff, too scared of what I might find. Ignorance is bliss.. Well, he's not scared of what he'll find because he's the one who set you free. Comparing how you perceive it and how he'll perceive it doesn't fit. As for the weaning, a lot of dumpers have a hard time going from 100 to 0 in their interactions with the dumpee. There's a void. As they try to fill the void, they keep some sort of contact until they can fill that void. The more they fill, the less they feel the need to keep tabs on you. They wean themselves off of you. So yeah, I wouldn't read too much into any social media watching. 1
Simon Phoenix Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 I just post stuff of me looking really happy.. and pretty in hope that he will see and miss me And he knows that you are doing that and sees right through it. He might even be having a laugh about it. You don't want to come off as a "try hard". 1
Emma1234 Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 I found out my ex was stalking mine. And so it was one of the things that led me to block him. I didn't want to be overthinking which parts of my life I shared on social media. It took a whole to adjust as I thought that I could have 'got him back' by showing how 'happy' I was, but at the end of the day I wanted to be genuinely happy for myself, not him. 2
Emma1234 Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 I think blocking them bothers then further. They have no idea what you're up to. This block led to 2 further breadcrumbs of which I ignored of course. It's all about moving on now! None of us can go back. All of our old relationships are dead and so we need it grieve them and move on. This will lead to either moving on successfully or reconciliation in a NEW relationship with our ex's as the old relationship was not working evidently. Personally I am finding I don't want any sort of relationship with my ex now. Not out of anger or bitterness. Just because I'm the one finding myself and realising that he wasn't actually what I wanted from life anyway. Sad but true. No contact was the cure. Emma. 1
Fufu Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 If you knew your ex was stalking your social media, what would you do? Is there anything specific you would post? If I were to hope for reconciliation one day, would this be a good sign? Never hope for a reconciliation, because it will backlash you. To me, love is unexpected at its best.
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