sark-4 Posted October 13, 2013 Posted October 13, 2013 So long story short I am a recent widow. Decided I wanted to start dating and came in contact with my first love in high school. Five months ago we started talking and things became more serious and he gave me a promise ring and wants to marry. Right now he lives four hours away. He lives with brother and sister. He moved in with them to help care for brother who had back surgery I was unable to walk. He expresses to me that his brother makes no attempt to get well and he has told him that he cant take care of him forever he wants to move back home where I live. His brother doesnt care and my bf tells me oh well nothing I can do. This frustrates me because he wants to make a life with me but he seems to have given up on the idea of his brothers recovery so he can move back. I am at a loss and dont know what to say. So basically there is no ending point. He always says with my brother walks and can care for himself I am moving back but like I said his brother is not making attempts. Other thing is there sister is there she does work but wonder why she wont figure out something to help my bf to move back and have a life he wants with me. So I guess what I want to know is how do I bring this up or what do I say. Am I being unresonable should I wait it out??? I have a deep fear of loss due to my husbands passing so I fear if I tell him how I feel he will cut me off.
emi Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 4 hours away isnt bad. u can make 2 visit atleast in 1 month. About his brother, you should suggest him hire a maid. And what his sister doing, is he the only one taking care of his brother?
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