headup Posted October 13, 2013 Posted October 13, 2013 I'm about 5 weeks post BU and 2 weeks NC after a 4 year shared home LTR. When we broke she cited wanting to feel 100% in-love again, and hoped some time apart might re-ignite some of that feeling. GIGS? Probably. Some days are harder than others, and today has been one of those days. I can't help but wonder how she's doing. Does she miss me? Does she worry she made the wrong choice? Is she completely fine and functioning happily without me? It takes every bit of strength not to break NC. If anyone has dumped someone for similar reasons, how did you feel in the early stages of the BU? Relieved? Confused? Any words of advice are appreciated.
cavalier99 Posted October 13, 2013 Posted October 13, 2013 My EX was relieved and happy it was over. Big stress off my back. Cav
melell Posted October 13, 2013 Posted October 13, 2013 There are not a lot of Dumpers on here that can weigh in. But yeah, usually if they reach out you will know they are thinking of you, if they don't reach out chances are they just don't care to. Dumpers don't look at nc like dumpees do. For dumpers they usually don't consider it 'nc', and from what I have read they usually don't fight any urges to reach out, they just do it.
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