Broken heart

[sambo77]

It's no wonder our broken hearts are so difficult to mend.

 

(1) Mine began to crack, creak and fracture when I (as I think many of us do deep down) first subconsciously felt her leaving me.

 

(2) Then, thud, it's a noise like a heavy stone being dropped into the sand. That's the noise it made when it actually broke...when I discovered her dating profile. Then came the dull endless aching.

 

(3) Then she danced on the little pieces, making them tinier, when she told me I was too pressuring (yeah...you just don't ask your gf to take her dating profile down, dummy) and that she had to let me go.

 

(4) Then she finally ground the tiny pieces into some sort of powdered heart when she started dating another within a week.

 

So, I'm sitting with a pile of powdered heart...hoping that isn't possible that the process can be further refined and wondering how TH I'm gonna put this thing back together :(

[geegee81]

Im sorry, I feel your pain as well. Breakups hurt really bad, but try to keep yourself busy and surrounded by friends. I'm in the same boat as you.

[Brown-Eyez]

the good thing about powder is that it can be molded!

 

so in time, your heart will form again into a solid whole

 

hang in there, keep posting

cuz sadly it often gets worse before it gets better

[Emma1234]

Powder can look beautiful and sparkly you can use your strength and your actions during this time to collect every speck of this powder and slowly glue it back together with life experiences. You can do this all by yourself and by the end of it you'll have a heart so strong and so special that you'll be able to give it to the right person.

 

All of the work you're about to undergo to heal your heart will be worth it when you finally say those 'I love you' words again and see that love reflected back at you through someone else's eyes.

 

Time and no contact, they're the beginning parts of this.