appleguy2k Posted October 13, 2013 Posted October 13, 2013 Hello all, I have a friend who I've known for about 7 years from school. He's broken up with his ex-gf twice in the past year. He never liked her and emotionally abused her. I developed a crush on her during the time I spent consoling her over him. He basically destroyed her self-esteem and she was devastated that he didn't want her. He started dating someone else a month later. I consoled her some more and eventually we developed a secret relationship and starting seeing each other every day. Life was good. She made me incredibly happy. We saw each other for about 3 months and decided to tell him about it. Well, he ended up breaking up with this girl he was with and told her (my girl) that he wanted her back before I got a chance to tell him that we'd been secretly dating behind his back. Upon hearing this, now she wants to end it with me and go back to him even though he never treated her right! I guess that made me the rebound guy even though she kept saying that I wasn't. It's just so frustrating because I feel like I always lose to *******s. She said she had never felt more loved with me. I forgot to mention that we all work together so I still see her at work. When she told me she was going back to him I said some angry things and we sort of ended on bad terms. I was thinking of talking to her next week to smooth things out and to thank her for the great memories? Sounds so pathetic. I don't know what I'm doing. Any advice on this situation would greatly be appreciated. Thanks. Oh and I know I totally broke the bro code too.
bluechocolate Posted October 13, 2013 Posted October 13, 2013 I was thinking of talking to her next week to smooth things out and to thank her for the great memories? I wouldn't bother. She used you. Oh and I know I totally broke the bro code too. What code is that ? He wasn't going out with her & was seeing someone else. To be honest they both sound like jerks. 2
headinthecloud Posted October 13, 2013 Posted October 13, 2013 She's emotionally unstable and look for others to validate her. Be glad she left, she's done you a favor. I would go NC (no contact) and move on. They sound very immature. You deserve someone who respects you and is loyal to you. She's out there, and she's looking for you too.
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