Stealth3 Posted October 13, 2013 Posted October 13, 2013 Was just wondering, is anyone else here feeling like they dated a girl and all of their friends as well? Anyone dated some girl that was always asking her friends for acceptance and guidance in everything that involved your relationship? Should she break up and end things? Will she find better? Should she continue? What should she do.... It gets to the point where you feel you are dating her friends as well because they are so ****ing involved in mind ****ing her and pulling her strings. Seriously, how do you deal with those girls? Other than just staying the f away from them....
reddragon588 Posted October 13, 2013 Posted October 13, 2013 Yes, all my relationships in high school and college. It's a maturity thing.
KatZee Posted October 13, 2013 Posted October 13, 2013 I don't think you understand the vast difference between males and females. Males tend to have issues and internalize them. Guys go off into their "man caves" to be alone, think the situation through, deal with it, and come back and fix it. Women on the other hand are "relationship" based when we have problems. We go to family members, close friends, we ask for advice, we talk, we rehash things, we like to fix things THAT way, rather than sitting alone like guys. If you're talking about a girl who just always listens to her friends, and doesn't have a mind of her own, then that's an entirely different issues in itself. She should be able to go to her friends, but at the same time do what SHE feels is best for her and the relationship. Not just take what they say at face value. 1
JDPT Posted October 13, 2013 Posted October 13, 2013 There is a maturity level to consider here if such girl needs to consult with her friends about what color underwear she should wear today. I personally find that utterly ridiculous and a clear indication that such girl has no sense of self. 1
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