skela Posted October 13, 2013 Posted October 13, 2013 So I had another post on here when I asked a younger guy on a date that we are going on next week. I'm not looking for a ltr. Some people said I should have made him take the lead. On the date do I make him take the lead. Does he go in for the kiss first - if it happens LOL. How does this work???
TB Rhine Posted October 13, 2013 Posted October 13, 2013 Tell him he's been a bad boy, and threaten/offer to spank him if he doesn't behave.
Skyraider829 Posted October 13, 2013 Posted October 13, 2013 So I had another post on here when I asked a younger guy on a date that we are going on next week. I'm not looking for a ltr. Some people said I should have made him take the lead. On the date do I make him take the lead. Does he go in for the kiss first - if it happens LOL. How does this work??? When you ask these sorts of questions, you are only going to get opinion, personal experiences, stories and so on. There is no book on what procedures to follow, what to do if this or that doesn't work as planned, et cetera. Perhaps I'm going out on a limb here, but I say don't even be aware of the age difference. I see it as a man and a woman going out, sans the difference in calendar dates. If I went out on a date with an older woman, I would see the roles as being equal like she were my age, or with me being her age. I would "take the lead" in that sense. I believe it to be proper of a gentleman. Most of all, whichever way it goes with either you leading at first and then him taking up the lead later, or him leading all the way - just be comfortable and flow with it. I do hope the date turns out to be what you want, and have fun. 1
Author skela Posted October 14, 2013 Author Posted October 14, 2013 Great advice. I'm over thinking it. Just gonna have fun and see how and where ;-) it goes!!
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