alexjames Posted October 13, 2013 Posted October 13, 2013 I was introduced to this girl a couple of months ago and we got on so well. We decided to get together, so on the 15th September we got together. It was a strange relationship, we couldn't see each other many times each week due to work and family restraints etc and for the past week we have done nothing but fight. The trouble is, I can honestly say she is the most stunning girl I've ever seen, she is the type who gets 50 "likes" on her Facebook pictures etc. I'm nothing special at all so if seemed unreal that she was with me. I wasn't in it for sex etc as it never happened as both wanted to wait a while. She broke up with me via text this morning after I got told (and it wasn't even true) that she was kissing a guy in a club last night, when I told her I had heard this she told me she isn't happy with me anymore as we fight s lot and she don't think I trust her etc. but I think I may love her and so her breaking with me even at such a short time into things has left me so down and I don't know what to do. I know for a fact I will never meet anybody near as beautiful as her, I'm going to regret letting her go for so long and I hate myself with a passion :'(
Stealth3 Posted October 13, 2013 Posted October 13, 2013 She sounds like a total bitch if she dumped you over text because of something you said. Seems like she used that excuse to just dump you... Diagnostics: GIGS, possibly another guy she has her eyes on... Treatment: A solid dose of good ol NC!!!
Author alexjames Posted October 13, 2013 Author Posted October 13, 2013 That's the thing. We had fights earlier in the week as I will admit I had trust issues with her, but we resolved then and she promised me she really liked me and didn't want anybody else. The reason she ended it is because of all the arguments we had this week alone, but I thought we were over that. We were even going out for dinner tonight together, I can't stop crying and thinking about her
Author alexjames Posted October 13, 2013 Author Posted October 13, 2013 Sorry as this is my second post about me ex Today. My girlfriend ended with me this morning. We were only together a month, but in that time we had a lot of arguments and aswell as that seeing her was very hard due to work commitments and her family being very protective. Last night we were out on the town, but with our friends in seperate groups, so i only had a quick kiss with her all night. She was ''grinding'' with other guys all night and was getting very close with them. I didnt like it and text her about it this morning (aswell as a text i recieved from a friend which i mentioned to her aswell), all hell broke loose and she ended it. I have been distraught all day though. Even though I didn't trust her and knew things were going downhill already, I still like her like nobody ever before. She in my eyes is the most amazing girl I have ever seen. Blonde hair, amazing figure, ridiculously cute etc, to be with her was a dream. I'm worse than average looks wise to be honest, and to have a beauty like that in my life is a dream come true. I just can't ever see myself with anybody as nice as her again, I know it sounds superficial, and I really am not like that, but to lose a girl like that is heartbreaking. I wasn't in it for sex as we were both waiting for a while etc, but I am just really cut up Today. I really am not coping :'(
Author alexjames Posted October 13, 2013 Author Posted October 13, 2013 Also, when I go on a night out (I do most weekends with my mates) I am bound to see her out. There are only 2 clubs here to go too, and me and my ex both go to both these places, and they are fairly small. It'll destroy me seeing her in there with other guys, knowing she isn't mine. I'm a mess!!!
GB25 Posted October 13, 2013 Posted October 13, 2013 (edited) Yes its infatuation you are in love with the idea of her..not her you like the way she makes you feel about yourself.. She represents something to you that you subconciously crave its like a drug..you use it to make you feel good..to alter reality It stems from a poor self image Edited October 13, 2013 by GB25 2
Author alexjames Posted October 14, 2013 Author Posted October 14, 2013 My work mate set me up with this girl. We were only together a month, and knew each other for a month before we got together. She is 18, I am 21. When we were together (in my car, at my home, at her home or out shopping etc) we were brilliant together. Nothing sexual as we were waiting, but a lot of passionate kissing, long cuddles and we got to the point where we would tell each other anything. She told me many times she really liked me and I had HUGE feelings for her (I still do). However, when we were apart and so were just texting instead (like when at work or whatever) we had a lot of arguments (trust issues mainly). It was hard to see her as her mum was over protective so only saw her for an hour or 2 a couple of days a week, and if we were at each others, she wasn't allowed into either of our rooms (I only ever saw her kitchen and living room in 7 visits to hers!). She was the most beautiful girl I've set eyes on, she has all the guys round her in the clubs, she gets 50+ likes on her facebook pictures etc and she loves the attention. If we went clubbing, she spent 90% of time grinding with other men etc. She left me Yesterday though, and I am a mess! I keep seeing her beautiful face and body, keep looking at her FB page (even though she deleted me), everything I do makes me think of her etc. It's pathetic, it was only a month, but it seems like I knew her for years and the fact she was such a beautiful girl (I am really shy and nothing to look at so would only ever dream of a girl like her). I can't stop thinking about her and really miss texting her and ''snapchatting' her etc and really want to just unwind time, but IT WAS ONLY A MONTH!!!!!!!!! Has anybody got any suggestions?!
bluechocolate Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 we had a lot of arguments (trust issues mainly) A lot of arguments & you only spent a few hours together a couple of days a week ?? Surprise it lasted a month to be honest. Has anybody got any suggestions?! Stop looking at her FB page for a start.
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