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Been ignoring this guy for quite a while now...because I hate being led on, go emo and all that confusion :mad: so I forced myself to forget about him(after 10 months of confusion lol facepalm), distracted myself etc. I even bought a musical keyboard even though I have no musical background :laugh: just to remove my focus on him lol

 

Btw, I did this because he made it clear long time ago that he won't have relationship with me even though he likes me. I'm tired of his flirting/getting to know sessions...they don't make sense. Why waste time on people if you don’t have future intentions with them? You're probably wasting their time too trying to give you attention... I was always the one who initiate communication. I used to text him, but I got no replies...btw I don't send cheesey stupid messages lol.

 

During the process, he came up again and talk to me but it was pretty obvious that I was pushing him away. Like I kinda interacted with him in mean ways and declining invites, etc. But lately, he chatted with me on Kik asking me if I was busy. I said no. He said he misses me lol. I just say 'okay' since I no longer miss him(I used to say it back too before). Then he told me that despite of the things he said before, he changes his mind and try to be closer to me, but it seems that I'm pushing him away. :eek:

 

Well good thing he's not insensitive :lmao: But but...I don't have feelings for him anymore but after that convo...I went crazy/confused again :( and can't keep him out of my effin mind! :eek: I was doing good with my life already!! until that last weird convo. He seems to be my weakness lol. This is bad.

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Your intent is to move on but you let this guy back in to talk to you. This is where you going in the wrong direction. Do want to be with a guy just playing head games or do you want a guy is serious about you in ways you want to be treated. This is how you must think in THE NOW! Plus your WANTS AND NEEDS! I see you have tried very hard to take this negative man out of your mind but you see it's hard to do so. If you allow him back in to your mind. Then you get all out of balance and off your positive side. Like your in a merry-go-round. If you don't want to be around him, then you go around in circle and you let him in, then you go around in another circle and you push him aside and where you end up is back to where you started out with him. Looks like deep down into your mind you care about this guy, but if he only in it for one thing, then this is not the guy for you. Can't be in a relationship with only one partner doing all the work to keep the relationship afloat. Best to move on and don't even bother to let him back into your life as you already know the answer why you shouldn't even both to ask again. Go with your gut intent and find someone else!

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Your intent is to move on but you let this guy back in to talk to you. This is where you going in the wrong direction. Do want to be with a guy just playing head games or do you want a guy is serious about you in ways you want to be treated. This is how you must think in THE NOW! Plus your WANTS AND NEEDS! I see you have tried very hard to take this negative man out of your mind but you see it's hard to do so. If you allow him back in to your mind. Then you get all out of balance and off your positive side. Like your in a merry-go-round. If you don't want to be around him, then you go around in circle and you let him in, then you go around in another circle and you push him aside and where you end up is back to where you started out with him. Looks like deep down into your mind you care about this guy, but if he only in it for one thing, then this is not the guy for you. Can't be in a relationship with only one partner doing all the work to keep the relationship afloat. Best to move on and don't even bother to let him back into your life as you already know the answer why you shouldn't even both to ask again. Go with your gut intent and find someone else!

well I talked to him again because I wasn't expecting that he's still thinking of me...I'm living a low profile online/offline since the day I convinced myself to move on. I wasn't the first one who initiated the recent convo though...and I don't think not replying is nice at all.

 

Yeah, one reason why I'm trying to get out is 'mind games'...He's a logical man...he could definitely manipulate me -_- I've been thinking about that since day one. *sigh*

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