truckingtaz Posted December 6, 2004 Posted December 6, 2004 Hello again. I would like have a women input. I have been here before. Real short I had lied to girlfriend about money you can look at my last post. Since than we have talked and things are alittle better. She had said I can sleep in the same bed agian instead of the floor. We also have made love since than to. I would like to know if she is thinking about giving me a second change? She has two boys age 8 she had said she would like me to stay for the hoildays after hoildays she wants me to move out. And we can try to work things out. But since she said that like i said she let me in the same bed and we are making love. What should I think? She is doing some things like she did in the begin of our realonship. Confused so any input would be great. Thank you for your time and help.
LucreziaBorgia Posted December 6, 2004 Posted December 6, 2004 Confusing messages at the time surrounding the breakup are very common. It could be a variety of things: she misses you, but doesn't want to have a relationship with you, she could just be lonely and needing a warm body next to her, she could be sparing her boys the pain of a breakup at Christmas - any number of things. If she asked you to move out, though then that is not a good sign, no matter what she did afterward. If you are worried about it, ask her if she still wants you to move out. If she says yes, then don't push it. I'd also let her know that if you are expected to move out, that it would be best that you don't share her bed to save yourself the pain. It really isn't fair to you that she be doing that to you if she knows she's going to be making you move out.
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