datingguy Posted October 12, 2013 Posted October 12, 2013 Hey All, I am dating this girl, been on 5-6 dates and it has been going great. She has a great career, she is sweet, beautiful and very sexy. She has snapped at me a few times and I am trying to understand. I am a very analytical/logical personality and believe in talking things through, she just wants space and doesn't want to discuss a given topic or when she has been hurt. She wants an I'm sorry and just to leave her alone. Today I kept talking about why a certain thing might have happened, she got really mad and said she needed space and maybe I should go home. I asked her if we could just calm down and not discuss it for a few hours and it made her mad. Ultimately I left to give her space but I don't understand the screw you I need space behavior. The more I talked about the topic the more mad she got. One day I kept asking her what time I could come over on Monday. I had fresh cut flowers ordered for her. She said "This is stressing me out, do you really need an exact time". I told her yes, I have you a surprise bouquet of flowers for your birthday and i need to tell them a pickup time. I live about 50 miles from this girl. Needless to say I keep getting hurt, am I too sensitive or how do you handle a girl who doesn't want to talk and just wants space when she is hurt. I find it difficult to not talk.
bubbaganoosh Posted October 13, 2013 Posted October 13, 2013 The problem is your too accommodating. When she gets pissed and says she need space, then tell her she can have all the space she wants and let her make the next move. Seems like she's dictating the way the relationship is going to be. Her way or the highway. Let her see that your not any kind of pushover or you'll get run over.
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