hasekninh Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 I am not trying to be defensive at all, but I feel the need to say, again, that I know I would treat her the way she deserves to be treated. I also know that no matter what I do/say on here, I will be judged for my previous actions toward this girl. I'll say again, people make mistakes. I made a mistake. I am now paying for my mistake. Don't tell me to "give up/move on" because that is not an option for me at this point. I want to fix my mistake, not move past it. That might sound pompous or naive, but I really want to make sure I do anything/everything I can before I stop trying. I am not trying to be a martyr of a typical guy that screwed up. I didn't cheat on her. I haven't been with any other girls since the breakup. I am just a dude that really likes a girl and wants to do whatever he can to get another shot. She WAS needy when we dated. She has admitted it. I also admitted that my behaviour was part of the reason she was acting needy. So the question remains: What do I need to do next? She is feeling like she is in a weird place and wants to be friends. I told her I had no problems with being friends. But now she is ignoring me. She literally asked me last week to "please don't stop being friends with me". But it's made complicated by the fact that I am very open about wanting to be with her. I have told her very blatantly. But that pissed her off because she says "you put it all on me and that's not fair". What can I do, besides giving up, to at least salvage a good friendship with this girl? I were in your exact position. Here what I learn. 1. You can't not make her be with you or wanted to stay with you as friend. 2. Her feeling for you might not be there. 3. No matter what you do or said times, she already made up her mind. 4. Sometime you only get 1 chance, you mess up it over. 5. Girl don't like their feeling to he hurt, you broke up with her. 6. Just accept her decision respect her and move on. Let me ask you this.. what do you want from her? Since you mess up, how about you do what she wants.
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