betteru Posted October 12, 2013 Posted October 12, 2013 I recently ended a relationship with a woman I've been with nearly 2 years. This is the third time this year we've broken up and this time needs to be final. The main issue is she failed to tell me she was still married at the time we met. She is long separated, but she told me she was giving her husband some time to work on medical issues (she carries his insurance). We've had numerous talks about it and she finally admitted there were emotional issues she was dealing with and still needed time. They have been separated over 6 years and share her grown daughter from another marriage. Her marital breakup resulted in cheating on her part with a co-worker. I don't want to know about her past but she occasionally brings it up and I seem to always learn some other tidbit that makes me question her integrity. She still works with this fellow but he has since remarried. Anyway, she basically tells me one thing, then does another, and this flip-flopping drives me insane. The relationship itself was working outside of these issues, but they were too much for me to move forward with. Each time I walked away, she called me to say how much she misses me. Yet, no change or progress was ever made. I finally had it and ended it for good last week. Neither of us have made contact but I would not be surprised if she does. Although I think she is getting tired of me walking away, so she may realize it cannot work any longer. All this aside, there is still much about her I miss. But I realize we have no future. I am looking forward to moving on and hope she does the same. Thanks for reading.
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