aal763 Posted October 12, 2013 Posted October 12, 2013 Ok so this girl Im really good friends with and I like a lot are going to Dallas for a college club. We are going to a Blackhawks game while we are there since we both like the Hawks. We will probably go out to dinner beforehand as well. First of all, I never actually said that this is going to be a date. When she found out about the game, she told me we should go and then I bought tickets. So its not like I asked her out or anything. Problem is, I want it to be a date since I really like her, but I don't want our friendship to go away if she doesn't wanna date me. What should I do while we are out in order to make it "feel" like a date? Should I give her a kiss afterwards if it goes well? The other kids in the club are already teasing us by saying we're going on a "date". Is that a good sign or should I tell them to stop?
Author aal763 Posted October 12, 2013 Author Posted October 12, 2013 Also, what kind of place should I take her to for dinner?
LonelyHero Posted October 12, 2013 Posted October 12, 2013 Ok so this girl Im really good friends with and I like a lot are going to Dallas for a college club. We are going to a Blackhawks game while we are there since we both like the Hawks. We will probably go out to dinner beforehand as well. First of all, I never actually said that this is going to be a date. When she found out about the game, she told me we should go and then I bought tickets. So its not like I asked her out or anything. Problem is, I want it to be a date since I really like her, but I don't want our friendship to go away if she doesn't wanna date me. What should I do while we are out in order to make it "feel" like a date? Should I give her a kiss afterwards if it goes well? The other kids in the club are already teasing us by saying we're going on a "date". Is that a good sign or should I tell them to stop? Well you have to think what you really want from this girl. You just want this to "feel" like a date and you are okay with yourself? Or you want to do some magical stuff to her body? I always prefer to talk about these thinks. You two will be alone . It's the perfect time. Buy her a red rose and see what she says. If she says "oh you are such a good friend" you can just leave the table without talking or stay there and suffer for the rest of your dinner. I think you can figure out what she will think that exact moment. you can give her a kiss at the end of the night. Hint: cross kiss her and when you go to complete the cross kiss her in her lips. If she says wtf are you doing? say it just came from the inside i am sorry i don't want to destroy our relationship and such dump stuff. Good luck fela
crederer Posted October 12, 2013 Posted October 12, 2013 Well you want to date her but not at the risk of losing the friendship. I can understand that but the reality is you have to choose one or the other and not both.
Author aal763 Posted October 13, 2013 Author Posted October 13, 2013 I think I'll at least try and make a move on her after the game. I'll be for sure putting my arms around her and flirting during the game. I don't think her rejecting me would ruin the friendship, my hope is that there would just be a few weeks of awkwardness.
Shepp Posted October 13, 2013 Posted October 13, 2013 sounds good brother! Better if she was a rangers fan but you cant have everything, eh? Just do the little things you do for a date and not for your buddies - put your arm round her, eye contact when shes talking, put your hand on her lower back to guide her to your seats, pull her chair out for her at dinner. Make her start, if she doesn't already, to see you as boyfriend material. Then yeah go for it, make your move, if your feeling it - you can normally tell if a girl wants a kiss otherwise at the end of the night just asker her, a little tongue in cheek "so does your date get a kiss then?"
Author aal763 Posted October 15, 2013 Author Posted October 15, 2013 I was thinking about it some more and I was wondering if I should just ask her if she wanted it to be a date? Like when her and I are alone together if I just kindly asked her this: "Katie, what would you say if our night out in Dallas was a date?" Is this good? And what should I say if she says she just wants to go out as friends?
clia Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Are you going with a group to Dallas, and only the two of you are going to the game? Because...that sounds like a friends thing to me. Why don't you just ask her to go out on a date before you go to Dallas?
Author aal763 Posted October 15, 2013 Author Posted October 15, 2013 Yeah we're all part of a student group. And yeah, its just the two of us going to the game! We are friends, but I'm pretty sure she knows that I've liked her for a while now.
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