jake62 Posted October 12, 2013 Posted October 12, 2013 (edited) Right so basically me and my girlfriend met 2 and a bit months ago under some traumatic circumstances and instantly fell in love. At first she was more after me than I was after her but after a while I can't stand to be without her anymore. This was unfortunately a long distance relationship but we were happy to give it a go as the travel costs were really small it was just time constraints really. So everything was going rather well and she was meant to come over and see me in 3 weeks but one night I got quite drunk on a night out and we ended up having a drunken argument because I told her everything that was bothering me with the relationship and she said she did not want to talk to me for a few days and that I broke her heart. So I gave her a few days but then couldn't stand it any longer so I contacted her and asked if she was ready to talk. She couldn't talk that night but she said that she still loves me no matter what but its difficult for her. So the next day we skyped in the morning and she said that she can't believe that I said what I said and that she thinks we shouldn't concentrate on being together because its too stressful for her because of the distance and that we would talk when she came over in 3 weeks. I told her that I was willing to fly over and see her at least twice a month but she was quite stubborn about it and said it wouldn't any way and started crying. She then said that we might talk in a week or two and we went off skype. I got horribly drunk that night and broke down, asked her whether we could talk the next day and so we skyped. I asked her if there's anything I could do and that I wanted to know whats gonna happen to us because it was makng me crazy having to wait. She got rather angry at that and called me selfish for not giving her time and said that she won't be coming over anymore. The thing is she didn't say that we were finished but after everything we went through together I can't believe i could be over like that. I sent her a quick text the next day saying that I was sorry i tried rushing her and that I hope she has a nice day. Its been a week since we had any contact now. She hasn't posted anything on facebook since then which is quite unlike her and she keeps signing in and out of facebook chat all day...not sure if she wants me to talk to her or not and if so should I talk to her now or give her more time? I've been doing my best to give her time but its driving me crazy and depressing me so much. Do you think that there's still hope for us? Because I think I drove her away and I really really want to get back with her Edited October 12, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Ansem Posted October 12, 2013 Posted October 12, 2013 Sounds to me like she's just using excuses to break up with you. You know, causing fights for no real reason and then blaming you via a breakup. Something sort of similar happened to me over the summer. I was with my ex for around 3 years; went to school together but during summers we were 4 hours away. Anyway, I visited her over the summer and everything seemed fine, she also told me she'd be visiting me sometime soon. After a couple days or so we started arguing on Skype for no apparent reason until she eventually stopped talking to me (out of anger "supposedly" I guess) then one day I get a text that she doesn't want to hear from me again. Take my advice and move on, you're lucky to have only spent around 2 months with this girl; should be relatively easier to move on from especially since it was LDR anyway. Goodluck brother; keep strong.
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