irc333 Posted October 12, 2013 Posted October 12, 2013 Last year, there was this won woman I went out with a couple of times, she even proclaimed then she liked me in a way that was romantic. We got affectionate on our 2nd date and she said she really liked me, but our geographic distance was quite a good ways a part. We initially met at the the party in the big city, but she lives in the extreme south side of said city, while I live on the extreme north side. Also, her work shifts keep her from doing much of anything unless the event falls on an appropriate day. Anyhow, cut to the chase, she started to make excuses not to meet but always enjoyed talking to me on the phone, and after about an hour long conversation I'd say, "Hey, this event falls on such and such day, which is a day you have off....want to go?" And it was always an excuse about her pets or some home repair issue she was dealing with constantly. She claimed to never have time anymore. I think there was one event she said she'd be at and then she wound up being a no-show, later I deleted her from my friends list. She contacted me and profusely apologized. She also went bonkers that I removed her from my friends list and provided an attached photographic evidence that her texting service never made it through. The text was about her texting me at the last min. not being able to make it anyhow. I called her up and we kind of made amends, but...she did leave me with a bitter taste in my mouth. Today though, she'll be there and I'm not sure how awkward for her or me it will be....guess we'll see. But at any rate, lets say you had a falling out with a friend or someone that was always playing games with you simply because you got sick of their crap and now have to run into them. Would you ignore them or be at least cordial with them? What if they try to engage you in conversation?
Art_Critic Posted October 12, 2013 Posted October 12, 2013 If you are in front of her you greet her like any other friend, warm and friendly and with a smile, handshake.. you genuinely ask how she is doing, make some small talk and then go on from there. To do anything else would be IMO rude and show her that she got to you. What is wrong with being warm and nice with someone you shared good times with ?
Author irc333 Posted October 12, 2013 Author Posted October 12, 2013 If you are in front of her you greet her like any other friend, warm and friendly and with a smile, handshake.. you genuinely ask how she is doing, make some small talk and then go on from there. To do anything else would be IMO rude and show her that she got to you. What is wrong with being warm and nice with someone you shared good times with ? I don't have a problem with it at all, sincerely I don't. I kind of felt bad about how it ended. She had attempted to reach out to me after the incident, but I ignored it.
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