livdee Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 So, I did something that I have told other's not to do...I texted my exAP. I get it in my head that I can just say hi. Simple. But it NEVER works out that way. Someone on another thread said it best. You get it in your head that you need to tell them something, even just hi. It will make you feel so much better... for 5 minutes until you think of something else you HAVE to say and the cycle begins again. I don't feel good that I texted. I feel silly and weak. He probably thinks I will be boiling rabbits soon. ( I totally won't!) anyway, if anyone else out there is having a weak moment today, read this and put that phone down...it just is not worth it! 1
headup Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 Thanks for this. I've thought about saying something many times and the one time I did I regretted it too. Stay strong 1
JDPT Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 You had a weak moment, that's essentially all it was. In time we will learn how to suppress those emotions and reference back to when we actually proceeded forward with them and realize that it's utterly useless and a waste of time. Be gentle and learn from this experience. We all break NC at some point some break it once and others numerous times. However, what's important is what we learn from those weak moments so that we may not fall for them later on down the line.
Beautiful diamond Posted October 12, 2013 Posted October 12, 2013 *hug* Your ex won't think too deeply of it. You are just being friendly. Next time remember this feeling you have right now, if you are tempted again. 1
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