waterwoman Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 I also think, generally, that pink sparkly eye shadow isn't a good look on anyone. Absolutely not! It makes you look like you have conjuctivitis!! 1
katielee Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 That OW2 has been caught in three affairs, according to her husband.... 1
Spotme Posted October 18, 2013 Posted October 18, 2013 I know too much. On the one hand, since she pretended to be a friend, I know lots of superficial stuff about her. On the other hand, from her emails and texts to H and her behavior during the affair, I know much more about her. I know that she survived several kinds of abuse and neglect as a child. She seems to simultaneously think she is broken and yet takes pride in how she handles relationships as a broken person. She admits that she realizes other people sometimes think they are her friends and that they are close to her while she feels no such thing about them, but plays the part as if she did. She shows people the face she thinks will gain her whatever it is she wants in a given situation (my very first thought on meeting her was that she was not right - that she was wearing a mask - should have followed my gut). She once called my daughter a liar and left her sobbing hysterically, then walked by her several times with eyes averted while I tried to console her (I had no idea what had happened at the time), saying not one word to try to rectify the situation. She sees money as power and uses it as a tool for control. She is twice divorced - both times the guy left her. She pursued an unavailable man (H), warned him she was broken and begged him to rescue her/never abandon her (all after he told her he could only give her an emotional affair - not that he used that exact terminology). She believes that fulfilling your own happiness without regard to the cost to anyone else is justified. Anything less is being a martyr. Her whole worldview on relationships is insane to me.
jnel921 Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 P&Vs I don't want to know anything about the OW. Because I don't care. The things I do know are so unimportant to me. The OW is not a relevant person in my life or my family's life. The more attention I give her, the more I speak about her , the more power I give to her. If our WH's stepped out on us, there is no point doing comparisons. In my own eyes I will be the best my H will ever have. If he decided to chose the OW then he could have her. I wouldn't waste time figuring her or them out. My H wanted me and wanted to work on us. I believed him and a year later I couldn't be happier.
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