RiceaRoni Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 How is everyone doing? I've been gone a couple of days haha, just wanted to check on everyone and see how things are going. I hope none of you have broken NC -.- haha 1
sealyons Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 hey, kind to monitor my total NC? I don't think I'll be able to pull it on my own. I don't rely on myself these days so perhaps someone to challenge me might work. This is going to be the first 24 hours of my NC. Had no communication with ex for months now but I must admit I've been snooping around. 1
loveofhorses1970 Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 I was just thinking about you about an hour ago and wondering where you were. Oh, oh, I'll go first, I broke NC! So here's to starting over. 1
JoelBarish Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 Hey Rice! Glad you are doing so well that you don't want to hang around us lost and depressed souls anymore. We're hangin in there I guess. I haven't seen or heard anything too painful lately. I still dream about the ex. Lately when I think of her I refer to her in my mind with a rather unflattering nick name. I think giving her a negative "label" reminds me to remember the bad qualities instead of only the good. So how are things with you? Pretty much over the ex, I suspect. Any good stuff going on? 1
AnyaNova Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 *clears throat* Um. Erm. Uhhh., Yeah. Broke NC on Monday, and a little Tuesday. Instant regret. Back on day three. 2
Petunia20 Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 Still wondering why he left me for her/them lol Trying to look at the comical part of this situation. Stopped looking at his Twitter and hers. I'm on Day 4 and hoping to continue this to...indefinitely! Hope you are doing better than me! 2
Author RiceaRoni Posted October 12, 2013 Author Posted October 12, 2013 hey, kind to monitor my total NC? I don't think I'll be able to pull it on my own. I don't rely on myself these days so perhaps someone to challenge me might work. This is going to be the first 24 hours of my NC. Had no communication with ex for months now but I must admit I've been snooping around. I challenge you then! snooping is a definite no-no. It's tempting, I know; but it breaks NC without your ex even knowing, plus it hinders x/ You got this. This is the start of your challenge
Author RiceaRoni Posted October 12, 2013 Author Posted October 12, 2013 I was just thinking about you about an hour ago and wondering where you were. Oh, oh, I'll go first, I broke NC! So here's to starting over. haha oh nooo it's okay, it happens; just get right back on path to NC and start over You got this! no NC! everytime you have the urge, or even the thought...say out loud NOPE!...NOT HAPPENING! no matter how tempting it is, try not to break it
Author RiceaRoni Posted October 12, 2013 Author Posted October 12, 2013 Hey Rice! Glad you are doing so well that you don't want to hang around us lost and depressed souls anymore. We're hangin in there I guess. I haven't seen or heard anything too painful lately. I still dream about the ex. Lately when I think of her I refer to her in my mind with a rather unflattering nick name. I think giving her a negative "label" reminds me to remember the bad qualities instead of only the good. So how are things with you? Pretty much over the ex, I suspect. Any good stuff going on? haha nah, I like hanging around all of you It's great talking to you guys. I've just been really busy with school lately Thats great! I mean that you havent heard or seen anything lately As for the dreams...they happen. I used to have dreams before...I've read articles claiming you dream about an ex because your brain is trying to figure out the loss, coping with it, and showing you memories you or the ex might have had; also dreams could consist of what you would like to see happen again. However as time moves on, they eventually pass and fade, and happen less frequently. Just hang in there J, I know you can do this About the negative label, lol hey, if it helps you, it helps. sounds like a good way to remember bad qualities about her. As for myself, I've been quite well lately i'm trying to find another job for myself, plus on top of that school has been keeping me very busy. Life has been pretty content for myself 1
Author RiceaRoni Posted October 12, 2013 Author Posted October 12, 2013 *clears throat* Um. Erm. Uhhh., Yeah. Broke NC on Monday, and a little Tuesday. Instant regret. Back on day three. aww it's alright Anya...back to strict NC! you got this girl Everytime you have the urge. fight it! tell yourself NO! NOPE! anything to get you to stop haha. it's tough...but I believe you can do it
Author RiceaRoni Posted October 12, 2013 Author Posted October 12, 2013 Still wondering why he left me for her/them lol Trying to look at the comical part of this situation. Stopped looking at his Twitter and hers. I'm on Day 4 and hoping to continue this to...indefinitely! Hope you are doing better than me! eh yeah, it's difficult because we always want to know exactly WHY they left us..but in the end you'll never really know or understand why, you just gotta slowly accept it, and move on the best you can.. aha that's great! good job keeping away from his Twitter and hers! it's a step to recovery! Let's get that Day 4 to like Day 100! haha
JoelBarish Posted October 12, 2013 Posted October 12, 2013 You are just a ray of sunshine! Rice do you think it counts as breaking NC since I saw her at the restaurant the other night?
Author RiceaRoni Posted October 12, 2013 Author Posted October 12, 2013 You are just a ray of sunshine! aw haha thanks J
Author RiceaRoni Posted October 12, 2013 Author Posted October 12, 2013 Rice do you think it counts as breaking NC since I saw her at the restaurant the other night? hmm. No, I don't think it does because it was unexpected. You didn't plan on seeing her there. You didn't initiate any sort of contact...time was just against you that night. IMO. Iv'e had that happen to me before, It's all timing. You never know where they'll be.
JoelBarish Posted October 12, 2013 Posted October 12, 2013 hmm. No, I don't think it does because it was unexpected. You didn't plan on seeing her there. You didn't initiate any sort of contact...time was just against you that night. IMO. Iv'e had that happen to me before, It's all timing. You never know where they'll be. I know but it did feel the same as breaking NC and I felt rejection all over again. Feels like starting over at square one. Why must she love Taco Bell as much as I do??
Author RiceaRoni Posted October 12, 2013 Author Posted October 12, 2013 I know but it did feel the same as breaking NC and I felt rejection all over again. Feels like starting over at square one. Why must she love Taco Bell as much as I do?? Ah yes, I know that feeling I guess it could be considered breaking NC, but I say more UNexpected NC.. UNfortunate NC again I'm sorry this happened to you J. Just gotta pick yourself back up! & Hey I'm proud you haven't knowingly broken NC It shows you're getting stronger Even after the event when you saw her. You're strong J, and will continue to be strong. Ah so it was at Taco Bell Lame. She just had to come and ruin it...sigh. All good though, it was just a moment. A terrible one, yes, but a brief moment. It will pass.
sealyons Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Ah yes, I know that feeling I guess it could be considered breaking NC, but I say more UNexpected NC.. UNfortunate NC again I'm sorry this happened to you J. Just gotta pick yourself back up! & Hey I'm proud you haven't knowingly broken NC It shows you're getting stronger Even after the event when you saw her. You're strong J, and will continue to be strong. Ah so it was at Taco Bell Lame. She just had to come and ruin it...sigh. All good though, it was just a moment. A terrible one, yes, but a brief moment. It will pass. Well, I've been going fine with my NC, thanks to you Rice for the challenge. I still care though, and this goddamn fnkn common friend of ours sent me a recent pic of my ex smiling and all that. I didn't ask for it. we were talking about our trip to New Zealand then all of a sudden sent me a pic of my ex. she apologized and said it was a mistake, wasn't supposed to be me. All excuses like she's still figuring her new phone and that. I pretended that I didn't see,. but it hit me to the hilt. it's been 12 hours and still I can't forget how beautiful she looks on that picture.
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