Omei Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 I dont know how to feel its been 8 months since my ex left me in this time I have made and lost 3 friendships that helped get me through as soon as any slight disagreement on a topic or just whatever they blow up and get real nasty. I am just a bit depressed I treat people so kind I do and it always bites me in the ass. I think im losing my trust in people I seem to experience my friendship being tossed away a lot. Idk what else to say maybe I should stop trying to make friends with people. They're so cold
Bito Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 The most important people in your life are the ones who hurt you the most. They teach you how to be a better person and how to overcome loss and hurt. Its ok to feel dispair every now and again but those feelings are never permanent. My words may offer little consolation but I hope you feel better. 1
Replaced Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 I went through very similar events as you. One week after she left me, my closest friend of 5 years abandoned me. I met someone new a month after who was great at helping me through some dark patches, but eventually she abandoned me to. I did make some friendships stronger however and since university started again, I've made many new friends and there's more to come. However, when it comes to trusting people now... I trust people with simple things but as for true trust, I do not trust anyone except my parents and older brother anymore. For someone to get close to me now, they have to earn my trust but even then... Like someone else said on here. We have been hurt by those we trusted the most, so we feel as, if I can't trust them, who can I trust? The majority of people (not all) I have met in my life are cold as you say. They put on a "show face" for all to see but at their heart, they are only looking out for themselves. Wish I was wrong about that. There are good people out there, we just gotta find them
todreaminblue Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 i lost a budding friendship recently.....i dont know how and it doesnt matter......i dont lose many friends once i make them....he is actually the first that i had real feelings for that has ended.. i think everything happens for a reason......and for what reason this happened remains to be seen..i have enough riddles to solve for the moment...i tossed that burden to god the reply i got was .....to stay......everything will be ok..i have written down how i feel that is my private thoughts and i delete them...i think i am going to write a song about that everything is going to be ok like there isnt already a thousand songs with that line.......lol...smilin....dont get caught up with what was but concentrate on what will be and that .....will be is bright with promise and hope...hugs to ya..deb.......
Author Omei Posted October 13, 2013 Author Posted October 13, 2013 Thanksgiving dinner was tonight being with my family is great I came home to my apartment shed a tear Miss having someone to share my day with.
Lost_Dragon Posted October 23, 2013 Posted October 23, 2013 When you're down everything seems cold and bitter. It's all in our minds. You need something to make you brighten up! Anything! When I'm really down I think about not how down I am but how I can make someone else smile or laugh. Not just anyone though unless your into talking to strangers.. lol It really doesn't matter, I find happiness in being selfless when my SELF is bringing me down. Hope this helps in some way
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