innocntlisy1981 Posted December 5, 2004 Posted December 5, 2004 wow i just have no idea what to do.theres so much to this story if u need to know more please ask im going through a fu**ed time and i dontmknow how to get out o it.it all starts here 2 years ago my fiancee has a caraccident and gets killed 6 months down tha trak i meet sum.he has pretty much been ther for me we have been together for a year and a half but recntly broke up 3 months ago bu we have stil been hanging out heaps and doing tha whole sex thing still.basically we broke up cos we are 2 diffrent there was 2 much emotional abuse and sumtimes physical and thers from him and hes very nasty with his words.i love him and care for him heaps its just not tha same !!alls he does is try and change me he dosent like this and he dosent like that its neverending im fed up.anyway i go on a holiday for 3 weeks and while im away he gives me tha whole ignore crap i met heaps of eople while i was away and it really boosted my self esteem cos i realise how very special i am.not tha my ex never said it he did but in tha same breath he tellsme what a low life piece of **** i am.i think im afraid of being on my own and i shouldnt be i dont knowwhy its not like i have trouble getting mens attention!!anyway while i was away i explored abit cos my ex was givin me tha silent treatment.i met this really nice guy we live so far apart from each other like 12 hrs plane trip anyway we swapped numbers and caught up a few times .i know that if i loved my ex like i should i wouldnt have don e this,its not like me at all.anyway we chat all tha time and i want to move but i have my ex that lives near me keeps begging me bak and i dont know what to do cos i dont want him to hurt hut i have to stop putting others happiness in front of my own.i know my ex treatedf me like **** but he keeps saying sorry please help!!!!!!!!!!what do i do!!
Hannah Posted December 5, 2004 Posted December 5, 2004 NOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! JUST LEAVE THE LOWLIFE SON OF A BITCH. HE AINT WORTH BOTHERING ABOUT,IF HE HURT U HE CANT BE A GOOD ENOUGH PERSON TO BE WITH, WHETHERT IT WAS EMOTIONAL OR PHYSICAL, ITS BOTH AS BAD AND U DONT DESERVE IT. YOU PROBERBLY CLING ONTO HIM BECUASE HE WAS EMOTIONAL SUPPORT WHEN YOUR FIANCE DIED, BUT THIS STILL SHOULDNT AFFECT YOUR DECISIONS TO MOVE, ITS YOUR CHOICE AND IF YOUVE SPLIT HES OUT OF YOUR LIFE NOW. DONT KEEP CASUAL SEX IT WILL ONLY DRAG UP THE PAST. ENJOY YOUR LIFE, YOU DONT HAVE TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP AND IF U MET HIM ONLY A FEW MONTHS AFTER YOUR FIANCE DIED THEN IT SEEMS LIKE YOUVE BEEN WITH SOMEONE ALMOST CONSTANTLY FOR A FEW YEARS, HAVE A BREAK. AND FIND SOMEONE THAT DESERVES YOU. AFTER ALL HE CANT BE THAT SPECIAL IF YOUR SO CONFUSED YOUR RELYING ON STRANGERS TO ANSWER YOUR PROBLEMS. WE WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK, GET OUT OF THERE BEFORE HE HAS CHANCE TO HURT YOU EVEN MORE. EMILY AND HANNAH
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