hasekninh Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 I were dating this girl, than suddenly it went down hill. She say she want to be friend and I agree, but lately she not acting like a good friend. She text me when I were driving to her house, I text her back when I arrived and I even called her phone. NO ANSWER. The next day I got a facebook msg from her. She ask me, if I came by yesterday. DUH, I told her i called her and text her. She said she block my number text msg and erase my number therefor didn't know I were outside her house. wtf, she just text me yesterday and called her... Even to this day, we communicate on fb msg as a friend. Furture more, idk what her new number is or maybe it the same. is she a good friend? should I block her number? Should I continue be her friend?
moonracer Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 This girl is behaving very strangely. I would not bother. She is not being honest. 1
phineas Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 Sounds like a typical woman who doesn't want to date a man but lacks the courage to tell him. So she says "Let's be friends" then acts like a total whack job because she doesn't really want to be friend either. Just ignore. At this point, no matter what you do, you will be the bad guy. If you keep trying to be her friend she will brand you as the "creepy guy" If you tell her not to contact you anymore you will be labeled "the jerk" So just ignore her. Give no reaction. What is she going to do then? complain the guy she kept blowing off is ignoring her? She will look even more crazier. Like I said, ignore her. If you have to delete & block her to do that, then do so but do it without a word.
scorpiogirl Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 Sounds like a typical woman who doesn't want to date a man but lacks the courage to tell him. So she says "Let's be friends" then acts like a total whack job because she doesn't really want to be friend either. Just ignore. At this point, no matter what you do, you will be the bad guy. If you keep trying to be her friend she will brand you as the "creepy guy" If you tell her not to contact you anymore you will be labeled "the jerk" So just ignore her. Give no reaction. What is she going to do then? complain the guy she kept blowing off is ignoring her? She will look even more crazier. Like I said, ignore her. If you have to delete & block her to do that, then do so but do it without a word. Yes do this. You wouldn't have allowed any other "friend" to treat you like this but you're probably hoping she will change her mind about you. She's being stupid and is hoping you will just stop contacting her. Neither of you wants to be "friends".
Author hasekninh Posted October 14, 2013 Author Posted October 14, 2013 Yes do this. You wouldn't have allowed any other "friend" to treat you like this but you're probably hoping she will change her mind about you. She's being stupid and is hoping you will just stop contacting her. Neither of you wants to be "friends". I want to be her friend, I really like her. I guess it over now, because she think that am not her type. But I never go a chance to prove to her anything. We just went out 2 times. She block my number and fb account.
Author hasekninh Posted October 14, 2013 Author Posted October 14, 2013 Sounds like a typical woman who doesn't want to date a man but lacks the courage to tell him. So she says "Let's be friends" then acts like a total whack job because she doesn't really want to be friend either. Just ignore. At this point, no matter what you do, you will be the bad guy. If you keep trying to be her friend she will brand you as the "creepy guy" If you tell her not to contact you anymore you will be labeled "the jerk" So just ignore her. Give no reaction. What is she going to do then? complain the guy she kept blowing off is ignoring her? She will look even more crazier. Like I said, ignore her. If you have to delete & block her to do that, then do so but do it without a word. Thank man, she is a really shy person. I came to her house to hear it from her. She didn't have the courage to tell me in person. She just fb msg and text. No call or anything. Am trying to be her friend, but I guess it over now because she block me and doesn't want to contact me anymore. We got into a huge argument about how she mistreated as a friends. I like her, but I guess she doesn't like me. She never give me a chance, we only went out 2 times.
lakerman34 Posted October 14, 2013 Posted October 14, 2013 This is actually an incredibly simple case. On LoveShack, there are A LOT of cases that can go a million different ways. Easily, just stop talking to her. She isn't interested in you, not even as a friend. She probably has issues. Reading about her, I think of a blond girl who puts WAY too much makeup on and thinks WAY too highly of herself. Kind of like a blond Snooki. She just sounds like she thinks she's better than everyone. I mean, that's just the picture of her I've drawn in my head. Dumb sorority girl that has the maturity of a 13 year old.
Author hasekninh Posted October 15, 2013 Author Posted October 15, 2013 This is actually an incredibly simple case. On LoveShack, there are A LOT of cases that can go a million different ways. Easily, just stop talking to her. She isn't interested in you, not even as a friend. She probably has issues. Reading about her, I think of a blond girl who puts WAY too much makeup on and thinks WAY too highly of herself. Kind of like a blond Snooki. She just sounds like she thinks she's better than everyone. I mean, that's just the picture of her I've drawn in my head. Dumb sorority girl that has the maturity of a 13 year old. Thank for the reply, I mean if she not interested in me or doesn't want to be my friend, at least tell me in person when am at her house. Instead of telling me this on fb msg and text msg. At least call.
lakerman34 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Thank for the reply, I mean if she not interested in me or doesn't want to be my friend, at least tell me in person when am at her house. Instead of telling me this on fb msg and text msg. At least call. Girls don't work like that, man. If she doesn't want to talk to you, she doesn't want to talk to you. Just gotta drop it and move on. Not a whole lot of girls are going to be honest with you and say why they don't want to date/talk to you anymore. Has a lot to do with evolution and how women survive better when they are more agreeable and stay a part of the pack. She's hardwired not to hurt your feelings, even though it would be a WHOLE lot easier if girls just straight up said what's wrong ALL of the time. You have to figure that one out for yourself. If you continue to talk to her, she isn't the only girl that will think you're creepy. Even when you see her out in public, don't stop and say anything to her, unless she says 'hi' to you. Then, I'm only permitting you to say 'hey' back. Otherwise, look at her, chin raise, and move on. You don't come off as a complete douche, but you don't come off as a guy that's desperate to talk to her. Given a choice between the two, I'd rather be seen as a douche though. Much more respectable.
Author hasekninh Posted October 15, 2013 Author Posted October 15, 2013 Girls don't work like that, man. If she doesn't want to talk to you, she doesn't want to talk to you. Just gotta drop it and move on. Not a whole lot of girls are going to be honest with you and say why they don't want to date/talk to you anymore. Has a lot to do with evolution and how women survive better when they are more agreeable and stay a part of the pack. She's hardwired not to hurt your feelings, even though it would be a WHOLE lot easier if girls just straight up said what's wrong ALL of the time. You have to figure that one out for yourself. If you continue to talk to her, she isn't the only girl that will think you're creepy. Even when you see her out in public, don't stop and say anything to her, unless she says 'hi' to you. Then, I'm only permitting you to say 'hey' back. Otherwise, look at her, chin raise, and move on. You don't come off as a complete douche, but you don't come off as a guy that's desperate to talk to her. Given a choice between the two, I'd rather be seen as a douche though. Much more respectable. Your right, it nice to for her to be upfront, we are both adult. I dont talk to her anymore, because I dont see the point of talking to her. I think she hiding something from me, after almost 2 week of not much communication. but I don't think I will never know the honest answer from her. I prefer to be a douche lol.
lakerman34 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Your right, it nice to for her to be upfront, we are both adult. I dont talk to her anymore, because I dont see the point of talking to her. I think she hiding something from me, after almost 2 week of not much communication. but I don't think I will never know the honest answer from her. I prefer to be a douche lol. Exactly. So don't even think about her anymore. This is dead in the water. Put her in your past, move on, find a lady who isn't as strange as this one. Imagine staying with a strange girl for the long haul. Things would come out that would make you wish you didn't waste your time with her. On to the next one, man.
Author hasekninh Posted October 15, 2013 Author Posted October 15, 2013 This girl is behaving very strangely. I would not bother. She is not being honest. Yea, I were thinking the same thing. We talking good than suddenly, we stop. 12 hr text reply, not picking up the phone. Text me after I called her, etc. Short text msg like " Am fine ttyl NEXT WEEK" etc. Then instead of that she block me and block my text but fb msg. grrr!!!! I think she not honest with me and tell me anything. She told me she have personal problem/ stress out from work, and had headache. But come one for more than a week? I asked her " did i do anything wrong" she said "no". So why she acting this way.
lakerman34 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Yea, I were thinking the same thing. We talking good than suddenly, we stop. 12 hr text reply, not picking up the phone. Text me after I called her, etc. Short text msg like " Am fine ttyl NEXT WEEK" etc. Then instead of that she block me and block my text but fb msg. grrr!!!! I think she not honest with me and tell me anything. She told me she have personal problem/ stress out from work, and had headache. But come one for more than a week? I asked her " did i do anything wrong" she said "no". So why she acting this way. Ah. This comes out. You, sir, have been friend-zoned. Sorry bro.
Author hasekninh Posted October 15, 2013 Author Posted October 15, 2013 Exactly. So don't even think about her anymore. This is dead in the water. Put her in your past, move on, find a lady who isn't as strange as this one. Imagine staying with a strange girl for the long haul. Things would come out that would make you wish you didn't waste your time with her. On to the next one, man. Thank man, Do you think I did anything wrong? Did I not give her space? pressure to be with me? I told her am not ready for a relationship and hanging out w her 2 time is so quick to be in a relationship. We agree to take it slow and get to know each other more. But now it ended. Giving her space, I believe I did. I text little (1 per day) no phone call, no fb msg. The last time I came to her house were to see how she doing after a week. But she never came outside. That the last time.
lakerman34 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Thank man, Do you think I did anything wrong? Did I not give her space? pressure to be with me? I told her am not ready for a relationship and hanging out w her 2 time is so quick to be in a relationship. We agree to take it slow and get to know each other more. But now it ended. Giving her space, I believe I did. I text little (1 per day) no phone call, no fb msg. The last time I came to her house were to see how she doing after a week. But she never came outside. That the last time. Shouldn't have gone to her house. Did you try ANY sort of physical contact with her? I've found that if you don't touch a girl during a date (lower back, arms, shoulders), they decide that you aren't a sexual guy and in their unconscious (and maybe even their conscious) decide you aren't worthy as a sexual partner. It's OK. You are no less of a man for it. We all make this mistake. Just learn from it and move on.
Author hasekninh Posted October 16, 2013 Author Posted October 16, 2013 Shouldn't have gone to her house. Did you try ANY sort of physical contact with her? I've found that if you don't touch a girl during a date (lower back, arms, shoulders), they decide that you aren't a sexual guy and in their unconscious (and maybe even their conscious) decide you aren't worthy as a sexual partner. It's OK. You are no less of a man for it. We all make this mistake. Just learn from it and move on. No physical contact w her
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