newyorkkid76 Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 Well my situation is I was in a relationship for 5 years when me and my ex got together we didn't even have sex or kiss for at least 90 days. She made sure I was the right man before I got to meet her kids or even come to her house. Well of the course of the relationship I was extremely verbally abusive and hurtful to her but she would break up and take me back numerous times til finally last year her mother died oct of last year. She had her mother cremated. Well I got angry with her on more than one occasion and made the comment that I would knock over her mothers ashes of the table.....I know a horrible thing to say. .every since that she slipped further away until she broke up with me in june. During that time she phones me to say that she had cheated on me and kept seeing that guy even to this day but she's says its just sex...here's the deal...he almost got her pregnant annnd he's married with a pregnant wife at home. He told her that his wife cheated on him and that the baby his wifes having may not even be his baby. He says he wants to leave his wife to be with my ex. She told me that she didn't mean for the affair to happen he was there to talk to and it happened. I begged and pleaded but it didn't help she said she didn't want to be with no one right now everytime I try to hangout with her she cancels plans saying she's busy .....sometimes she initiates contact but when she tells me she'll call me right back she don't at all......she didn't ask me to but she was moving I paid for the exspenses and asked if she needed me to be there she said no....later on come to find out the guy that she was cheatin with was there helpin her.....I finally asked her if she was still havin sex with him she said yes ...I said if I would have known that he could have paid for her move and I ask for the money back which I later said to keep it. But the funny thing is she was willing to travel with me go with me to the gym ...we talked about going to vegas and all that while this all was goin on I figured if I take her places and do things she'll warm up to me...btw she's not at all a gold digger while I was with her she loaned me countless amounts of money and if I needed I probably still could. But since I said what I said to her about the moving situation she's been even worse with contacts now need help .....anyone
thompkevin Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 Hey, It seems that she is trying to move on and she still has feelings for you. I think the best way for you to do would be to try to move on as well. I know it's a hard thing to do but in the end, if she wants to get back together, you can decide whether you want her or not. Perhaps you should also work on your abusive nature.
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