Delcore Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 (edited) I'm going to be brief and straight to the point. I've never dated before. Not long ago, I spoke with a girl on the bus whom I liked, and acquainted myself with her. (I'm a Freshman shes a Junior so we have no classes, I just see her in the hallways. I have a different lunch but may be switching soon) Today, I saw her in the hallway and told her I wanted to get to know her better and if I could call her sometime. She said she had no phone. (Seriously doubt this) She just said to speak to her tomorrow. At the end of the day, her friend came to me and said "She told me you asked her for her number, but you do know someone else is trying to date her? She hardly even knows you!" Any advice on how to handle this situation? Note: Apparently there is an upcoming dance tomorrow that I wasn't aware of. As far as I know, either this can be a benefit for me or a disadvantage should the other male ask her. Read more: Highschool Dating Problem? | Answerbag Highschool Dating Problem? | Answerbag Edited October 11, 2013 by Delcore
Eivuwan Posted October 12, 2013 Posted October 12, 2013 lol you're a freshman and she's a junior. females tend to mature faster than males during the teenage years... Find a freshman girl to date.
Author Delcore Posted October 12, 2013 Author Posted October 12, 2013 lol you're a freshman and she's a junior. females tend to mature faster than males during the teenage years... Find a freshman girl to date. Everyone matures differently and at a different pace. Personally, I feel I've a pretty intellectual and ambitious individual. As for my standards, they land high above the bar to avoid typical "derpish?" bahavior...
gaius Posted October 12, 2013 Posted October 12, 2013 I would find a way to talk with her a bit more and then ask for her facebook. Then work your way to phone numbers and dates from there. I don't know how well you acquainted yourself with her on the bus but sometimes girls need a little time to get to know you before they feel comfortable with handing out numbers. The good ones at least. You might need to be a little more persistent than usual since she's a junior and you're a freshman. Unless things have changed since I was in high school and there's no stigma on that anymore. But I think it's a good sign her friend came and communicated that to you. It makes me think you have a chance. So I would keep it up.
Eivuwan Posted October 12, 2013 Posted October 12, 2013 Everyone matures differently and at a different pace. Personally, I feel I've a pretty intellectual and ambitious individual. As for my standards, they land high above the bar to avoid typical "derpish?" bahavior... Of course. There is no harm in trying your best. It's better to ask your friends in real life for tips. I just know that back in my days, it is very unlikely for a junior high school girl to date a freshman.
Author Delcore Posted October 13, 2013 Author Posted October 13, 2013 Of course. There is no harm in trying your best. It's better to ask your friends in real life for tips. I just know that back in my days, it is very unlikely for a junior high school girl to date a freshman. Okay, but the only thing I'm afraid of is creating "massive drama" and cluing in everyone in her grade and list of friends about my intentions. What can be done about this?
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