ConcreteHeart Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 When I'm alone at night...I long for what we had. I wish and hope that he does too. But I know he doesn't. This is the hardest part of NC. The longing and not acting on it. Yet when someone says I don't love you and I never did...it is easier to say goodbye... So NC rules...
Cinnimon Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 When I'm alone at night...I long for what we had. I wish and hope that he does too. But I know he doesn't. This is the hardest part of NC. The longing and not acting on it. Yet when someone says I don't love you and I never did...it is easier to say goodbye... So NC rules... So sorry your hurting
RickFox Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 use that statement to help you move past those feelings when they arise. hard to miss what you had when you realize the other person didn't care.
Hopelessromantic25 Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 I agree with rickfox, use it as fuel to reset your boundaries and regain yourself to take that small step forward.
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