justconfused25 Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 Hello Community, Let's say you have strong feelings for a person but because of whatever reason (their past relationships, financial or family problems), they're not sure if they want to date you. And you know they are completely not leading you on. They are ACTUALLY unsure. When do you think if ever it's justified to let this person slowly decide and let the relationship just "go with the flow" naturally instead of demanding an answer right away?
elmichi Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 Hello Community, Let's say you have strong feelings for a person but because of whatever reason (their past relationships, financial or family problems), they're not sure if they want to date you. And you know they are completely not leading you on. They are ACTUALLY unsure. When do you think if ever it's justified to let this person slowly decide and let the relationship just "go with the flow" naturally instead of demanding an answer right away? At least in terms of my ex boyfriend, who seemed believably on the fence for awhile, you'll eventually go separate ways. Something will trigger why you're on the fence in the first place.
Skyraider829 Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 Let's say you have strong feelings for a person but because of whatever reason (their past relationships, financial or family problems), they're not sure if they want to date you. And you know they are completely not leading you on. They are ACTUALLY unsure. When do you think if ever it's justified to let this person slowly decide and let the relationship just "go with the flow" naturally instead of demanding an answer right away? If anyone is uncertain, don't press for an answer. They'll answer when they've made up their mind. Reason takes time, it doesn't always deliver an instant black or white answer when it comes to interpersonal issues.
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