barbossa Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 on occasion I meet a cool girl, Someone i think is cute cool etc. we talk exchange numbers and text each other. on text they are very flirtatious. I am too of course... twice now I have been out for lunch with 2 different girls. Both revealed to me they have boyfriends and want me as a friend but, one has even introduced me to her bf. one says she does not want to give up her LDR. but when we text it is so flirtatious... Do they just want an ego boost and have my attention and flirtation? if i want something more .. should i keep going or cut my losses and move on?
hppr Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 Do they just want an ego boost and have my attention and flirtation? Pretty much. Might be they want you as a backup plan in case Mr Perfect turns out to be a dud. Either way you are barking up the wrong tree going out with chicks who not only throw up the boyfriend flag but bring him along to meet you.
I-Love-Liberty Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 It's called being put on the bench in the bullpen. Some women do this, they have several guys on the back burner that they know would jump up off the proverbial bench and come out of the bullpen and date them.
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