Am i the only one offended by the idea if you lack a trait you have to make up for it

[PJKino]

You hear it with advice given on here to short guys about how as long as your perfect in every other way youll find someone willing to date you lol,thats more annoying and patronizing to me then somebody just saying they arent attracted to you because of a certain trait.

 

If my "negative" trait us such a turnoff that i have to be amazing in every other aspect for someobdy to consider me then i dont want them anyway

[pteromom]

I agree with you. The person for you will like you for exactly who you are.

 

I also don't view things like height, weight, baldness, etc. as "negative" traits. They are simply traits that might reduce the # of potential matches. The right person won't care about them at all.