Want_Happiness Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 Hey y'all just looking for some advice... heres the background: I started talking to this girl from an online website back at the begining of September. Things were great conversation wise and I believe we didnt meet for like a week cause I was busy with work. Finally we meet, we went to dinner then had drinks and played bar games. All in all it was a good time, good enough that we got together to watch football the next day together and after we even went to see a movie. I even got a kiss after that night ended. Since then I think we would spend about 3 days out of the week seeing one another. So I guess I should get to the point... I know she is into me as I am into her too just by some of the things we have done already and talked about. Plus she has told me she isnt seeing anyone else and hasnt been back on the website since she met me. My concern is its been over a month and the past couple times we hung out she doesnt seem that into me, like shes keeping to herself. It takes longer for her to want to cuddle if at all. Theres just a different vibe that I sense so its hard to type it out. I have asked her once if she wants to talk about anything but she said nope everything is fine. Also I noticed her texts arent like they used to be anymore, they were more frequent and now just slightly less and it seems like I initiate more than she does. I dont know if she feels we were spending too much time together at first and decided to press the brakes a little or if she has lost total interest. I want to say brakes cause we still kiss when we go our own way after seeing each other and we are still doing things together (watching movies, cuddling, etc...), she still responds to my texts (just not as quick as before). What are your guys' thoughts? Am I overthinking or is there something happening here to which I'm not reading it right? Thanks!!
headinthecloud Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 Yes, sounds like you're over thinking things. Just enjoy each other and get to know her better. Find out what makes her tick and if she opens up to you then you'll have something special. Be patient. Just have fun!
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