JJ4Sam Posted December 5, 2004 Posted December 5, 2004 Hey, I'm new here. Last month I met a girl called Samantha on msn, we hit it off right away, we have been great friends from then on. But over time we have been drawn closer to eachother and only tonight we thought we should stop flirting and try and just be friends but it just made it even worse! It has now ended up we cant stop thinking about eachother, getting chills and tingles at exactly the same time We have so much in common it's freaky, we have more in common than we do with any other people we know. She asked me a question, would I ever marry her? (she was asking me to marry her btw lol, we're 15!) I said yeah, sounds kinda sad but yeah, she said she would aswell. we started getting tingles again then I told her, I'm pretty sure she is the one, she said the same thing to me. I need to know if this is right and it is love. Please help
clandestinidad Posted December 5, 2004 Posted December 5, 2004 I hate to be so blunt about this....but yeah, thats kinda rediculous. I used to be mushy/romantic/dreamy about people when I was 15 too. Everyone has that...and it will pass as you get older. Its something about hormones and connecting with someone that you 'think' you'll always be with, and never connect with ANYONE else so well. But just so that I dont COMPLETELY ruin your day I'll tell you this: ENJOY IT, BREATHE IT IN, and SAVOR IT, B/C ITS AN AWESOME, AMAZING THING, and as you go through life always remember to treat females the same way youre treating this girl (loving/caring/tingles & all). Too many guys grow up into jerks, and seem to forget how to treat someone. Enjoy your youthful love, and always remember it fondly as you get older.
Proto Posted December 5, 2004 Posted December 5, 2004 Originally posted by kat23 Too many guys grow up into jerks, and seem to forget how to treat someone. Girls do this too...Kat. But anyways I agree, he should enjoy this and have fun.
clandestinidad Posted December 5, 2004 Posted December 5, 2004 Oh jeez Proto...I knew that one was coming!! lol I didnt mean that as a stereotypical comment...I said it that way b/c I was addressing a guy. I would have flipped it around if a girl had posted!
Proto Posted December 5, 2004 Posted December 5, 2004 Originally posted by kat23 Oh jeez Proto...I knew that one was coming!! lol I didnt mean that as a stereotypical comment...I said it that way b/c I was addressing a guy. I would have flipped it around if a girl had posted! I know I had to be the smartass for like 5 seconds...I'm done now.
Author JJ4Sam Posted December 5, 2004 Author Posted December 5, 2004 I forgot to tell you... shes a christian and I'm becoming a christian soon ...thanks for the "help"
Author JJ4Sam Posted December 5, 2004 Author Posted December 5, 2004 Stupid 20 minute edit feature sry but i had to double post because of it. I'm coming 16 verrrrrry soon and yes I am mature... I would like to think these feelings are more than you guys have said I've found it hard to sleep becuase of thinking of her, right now I still am and when I do I get like a warm feeling inside and feel realy happy.... You woulndt want to know how I feel when I'm with her ......noooooo not horny lol
clandestinidad Posted December 6, 2004 Posted December 6, 2004 There's absolutely nothing wrong with that warm, mushy feeling.....ENJOY IT!!!!! As for a future with her, only time will tell. Some people get married after knowing each other their whole lives, while others get married after only a few days.....just enjoy your time and dont fret about things that are very far ahead in the future.
Author JJ4Sam Posted December 6, 2004 Author Posted December 6, 2004 Thanks for you advice kat, I honestly think she is it, everything I have done and tried has all wound back to us being a perfect couple. I tried our star sign compadibility thing and it said we where a perfect match I tried lots of different ones and I got similer and sam answeres Even our horoscopes say that there is serious love
LucreziaBorgia Posted December 6, 2004 Posted December 6, 2004 Isn't it a wonderful feeling? She's obviously the 'one' right now, so sit back - be in love and enjoy your happiness.
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