Solana Posted December 4, 2004 Posted December 4, 2004 Hi everyone, I have recently found myself approaching my first potentially serious relationship post-divorce. I'm 26, my ex cheated on me, and I left him early in 2004. Our divorce was final early last summer. I recently met another divorcee who I've really connected with..... A long distance relationship, in fact (see my discussion on the LDR board for more details). Anyhow, I'm suddenly faced with this guy I have an amazing connection with, enjoy talking to, am thoroughly attracted to, the works. We started getting to know each other about a month ago, and have only met in person once. He is coming to see me again next week. After spending the last month talking to this guy daily for an average of a couple hours per day on the phone, I'm finding myself really excited but also really scared. I'm not scared in a way that will affect my behavior towards the relationship, but I am just a bit apprehensive. Everything is going so well, and I just want things to stay that way more than anything. Has anyone else been through this? Solana.
Jakethesnake Posted December 4, 2004 Posted December 4, 2004 I got the same problem. Fram a guys point. I am starting to get interested in an old friend from my 20's we are both now devoiced. I love here to death. Just so much sexual tention. I wait for here to call and miss her all the time. She kinda needing space. Now. We have not been physical yet but getting close and i feel we both get scared off together. Maybe we can help each other. Sometimes i think male and female think alike. Do you ever feel the force field come up. I do. Maybe he overwhilmed. I see we go though a lot after a devorce. Take care Jake
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