park8957 Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 Hi everybody! I have been dating my boyfriend for a couple months and sometimes I feel like he plays games with me. An example of this happened a couple days ago when I told him I was going out with my friends and he preceded to try and make me jealous by telling me that he would be going out with his friends( a lot more wilder than mine). Then the very next day he makes me feel bad about going out with my girlfriends. I want to hang out with my friends without feeling guilty and I also want to have a happy relationship with him. How can I have both?? Help!
Author park8957 Posted October 15, 2013 Author Posted October 15, 2013 I am 21 and my boyfriend is 20. Any advice you can give me?
mbee Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Whoa! Big red flag! Showing jealousy like this, this early in the relationship spells major troubles. Soon he'll be complaining about you going out with your friends and this guilt you are feeling will build up. A guy should be supportive of your friendships. You can't spend most of your time with your boyfriend. You need to nourish your friendships too. I would be wary of this guy.
Assasda Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 He's 20 years old, not even old enough to drink legally. You are. Sounds as if he's just jealous that you can do grownup things and he can't. It's more than likely this guy is NOT your life mate, so don't ever cast aside your friends for Mr. Right Now. A year from now, you won't even remember this guy's name. I guess if youre bitter, you try to wreck everybody's relationship huh? It seems like you guys are on an even playing field. I dont know how he can make you feel guilty, when he goes out with his friends as well. This topic just seems way too immature as well
MercuryMorrison1 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 If you've never given him a reason to feel like he can't trust you, then he shouldn't be playing games, honestly he shouldn't be playing games anyway, if he has a problem he needs to man up and talk to you like an adult about it, instead of acting like a jealous Juvenal boy. For me personally...''Games'' mark the beginning of the end for a relationship. But I'm also very strict about people being direct with me as I am a very direct person myself. I don't like trying to guess someone's feelings when they could just cut the bull**** and tell me whats up. Perhaps this one's on you. Maybe you should call him out on it. Tell him exactly what you said here, that you feel like he's playing games and acting jealous for no reason and that you don't appreciate it. Don't be afraid to walk out though if he reacts poorly. If he reacts badly than that will just cement what I already speculate...Which that he's still to much of a boy to have a serious relationship.
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