park8957 Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 Hi everybody! I have been dating my boyfriend for a couple months and sometimes I feel like he plays games with me. An example of this happened a couple days ago when I told him I was going out with my friends and he preceded to try and make me jealous by telling me that he would be going out with his friends( a lot more wilder than mine). Then the very next day he makes me feel bad about going out with my girlfriends. I want to hang out with my friends without feeling guilty and I also want to have a happy relationship with him. How can I have both?? Help!
StalwartMind Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 Well without knowing the full story, how you interact or for that matter how old you both are (as maturity and immaturity) comes in all ages, I do believe that you both need to talk and tell each other how you feel about things. In this case it's about you both going out with your own friends, however perhaps he is just wishing you spend time with him instead of going out, but he is incapable of saying that and thus it ends up being a game of making each other jealous which is unhealthy. It's never fun to feel hurt, and that's exactly why you both need to be upfront with each other. Communication is the key to success with most things, too many things in history proves that lack thereof results in things going the wrong way. However you do things to keep you both happy is entirely up to you and not for anyone else to judge, but work it out and don't be afraid to open up about anything, for some people that is harder than others but hopefully you know each other well enough to work through it 1
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