Ok so I feel like There's something wrong with me

[King Bowls]

I have never kissed or girl or dated one, and Im 19!! And a virgin!!!! Pathetic. I've got a body and strength most people will never have but I don't think it's working. It makes me want to BREAK MY DAMN HAND and tear stuff up. And it makes me want to hate myself because I feel like no progress has been made in getting better with talking to girls or anything. I've plateaued.

[King Bowls]

So my question is, how do I fix these things quick? I don't want to look back 20 years from now and mope about how much I missed out on

[Bubberfly]

Nothing to fix, IMO. I was 19 and a virgin, I never felt like I was missing out on anything. It happened when it was my time.

[Polak]

What is with virginity being an issue at certain ages? I am 21 and still a virgin. I don't see it as a big deal. I'm comfortable with myself and being single at the moment, but also I've learned a few lessons over the past few years that makes me who I am today.

 

Like Bubberfly says, it'll happen when it's your time. No need to rush it. It's not a #1 priority goal like some people make it out to be. Just enjoy your life for now!

[Bubberfly]

I found, when I was OPs age a sort of social stigma for being a virgin by my peers. It was as if perhaps there was something wrong with me, or I was gay, or I was some loser that couldn't find someone to do me.

 

I personally, wasn't ready, hasn't found anyone yet that I was ready to take the plunge with, and popping my cherry wasn't a high priority.

 

Now I'm older, I see these under-18s sleeping around with eachother, and to me, they're "babies." (Not calling you a baby, King Bowls). I look back at that age, and think, "God I was SO YOUNG! What was I doing stressing about sex?"

 

And trust me, sex isn't as fun until you get a little older and more sure of yourself.