ibenuto Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 So I’ve been seeing this guy for about 4 weeks. (Before we started seeing each other we would text off and on as friends. Even then he seemed like a super genuine guy.) We get along pretty well. He's always nice and respectful to me. Does nice things for me. During our 3rd date he told me that he’s worried I’m going to tell him that I don’t want to see him anymore because of his busy schedule. Then he told me that he knows I like to text him and he feels bad that he doesn’t have time to text me back right away since he’s normally busy. I told him not to worry about it because I understand and because I also have my own responsibilities. And he said that that’s why he likes me; because I don’t make a big deal like other girls do. (Although I’m kinda making it a big deal now lol.) Last time spoke with him was last Thursday night. He told me that he would see me sometime by the end of the weekend. Well hello! The weekend is over and the new weekend is about to start! Am I just being paranoid? I haven’t heard from him in 6 days. From the start he was a crappy texter. But it’s been almost a week now. I would text him but I don’t want to seem clingy. And most of the time when I do text him I feel like I’m bugging him since I know he’s at school and that his classes are 10x more difficult than mine. I know he's busy, but I'm sure he's not busy ALL the time. What do you think?
MissBee Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 He's not that interested. NO person seriusly invested in you will disapper for a week. No matter how busy you have one free minute and when you care or are super in love you will use that free minute, even to just send a text, which takes 2 seconds. If for 6 days someone utters not a peep, it is safe to say you're not a big priority for them. 1
MrCastle Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 This is the guy that wouldn't stop touching you and always tried to get sex going right? I don't know if it's "dating" as much as it is him having sex with you when he has the free time.
mammasita Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 That's crazy. If you're truly dating then there's no reason to go 6 days without a word. You guys may not be on the same page in terms of what "dating" means. 1
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