reddragon588 Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 we are both crazy. we watched Silver Linings Playbook on valentines day for crying out loud. I won't lie, this one made me chuckle. 1
StyleOnEm Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 Damn. She got you p*ssy whipped by essentially saying you aren't a real man. Sounds like wifey material bruh.
Author Scoot Scoot Posted October 26, 2013 Author Posted October 26, 2013 here's what happened. i sent a text to her asking if we could make amends and be friends. she responded, and yet gave me the runaround. then i asked if she could give me another chance. this time she brought up all the 'bad things' i did in the past. she told me that i push things and force that she doesn't want to get back. said "the more you push, the more i don't want it. if you let things happen on their own, we could have gotten back." this is so frustrating talking to her, how am i suppose to let things happen, if i don't make a move?!?! if we can't even be friends, how are we suppose to do this?
crazybestie101 Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 here's what happened. i sent a text to her asking if we could make amends and be friends. she responded, and yet gave me the runaround. then i asked if she could give me another chance. this time she brought up all the 'bad things' i did in the past. she told me that i push things and force that she doesn't want to get back. said "the more you push, the more i don't want it. if you let things happen on their own, we could have gotten back." this is so frustrating talking to her, how am i suppose to let things happen, if i don't make a move?!?! if we can't even be friends, how are we suppose to do this? First of all who broke up with who ? How long you dated ?
Author Scoot Scoot Posted October 26, 2013 Author Posted October 26, 2013 First of all who broke up with who ? How long you dated ? she broke it off with me. we were friends for 8 years. we got intimate and started our relationship in 2012.
crazybestie101 Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 she broke it off with me. we were friends for 8 years. we got intimate and started our relationship in 2012. Well if she broke up with you , then why would you contact her at first place. It's ego boost for her. Stay on NC and let her come to you. If she wants to get back together she will contact you. She is playing mind games with you, dont get into it. 2
Simon Phoenix Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 So this girl has repeatedly told you not to push her, yet you keep pushing. I mean, this isn't rocket science. Back off. 2
Author Scoot Scoot Posted October 26, 2013 Author Posted October 26, 2013 Well if she broke up with you , then why would you contact her at first place. It's ego boost for her. Stay on NC and let her come to you. If she wants to get back together she will contact you. She is playing mind games with you, dont get into it. i miss her thats why. so what do i do, just wait forever for her to hit me up? i've heard, when you find the one, you never stop fighting for her.
Simon Phoenix Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 i miss her thats why. so what do i do, just wait forever for her to hit me up? i've heard, when you find the one, you never stop fighting for her. She doesn't want you to fight for her. She's told you that. And fighting for someone is worthless if they don't want to get back with you. In fact, it comes off as harassment. 2
Author Scoot Scoot Posted October 26, 2013 Author Posted October 26, 2013 She doesn't want you to fight for her. She's told you that. And fighting for someone is worthless if they don't want to get back with you. In fact, it comes off as harassment. i've told her that i'm giving up then, but i would like to remain friends.
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 i miss her thats why. so what do i do, just wait forever for her to hit me up? i've heard, when you find the one, you never stop fighting for her. You move on from it. Find other women. Make your life better. Quit dwelling on the past. 2
Simon Phoenix Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 i've told her that i'm giving up then, but i would like to remain friends. First of all, don't send that. Second of all, you don't want to be friends, so don't lie to her. Don't contact her. Stop being impatient and settle the hell down. Let her breathe and take a breath yourself. 2
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 i've told her that i'm giving up then, but i would like to remain friends. If you still feel like you do, then friends is a terrible idea. I see Stealth told you in an old thread, but would you like her to tell you who she is dating? How her sex life is going? Her possibly gettinf engaged? I know the answer is no so...no friends is an awful idea. 1
Author Scoot Scoot Posted October 26, 2013 Author Posted October 26, 2013 First of all, don't send that. Second of all, you don't want to be friends, so don't lie to her. Don't contact her. Stop being impatient and settle the hell down. Let her breathe and take a breath yourself. i know she said i'm too much. i mean it was cool when we had a friendship all those years, then she told me she had a crush on me, and wanted a relationship, get married and spend forever together. yada yada. i just hate that we can't go back to being friends.
crazybestie101 Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 i miss her thats why. so what do i do, just wait forever for her to hit me up? i've heard, when you find the one, you never stop fighting for her. Dude , we are in same boat. I feel same , sometime i also think should i just sit here and wait for him to realize. But dude whatever we do , they cant see it. So it's worthless. I poured out my heart my ex and what i got from it "leave me alone , dont "ever contact me back". Also completely agree with Simon phoenix and confusedhumanbeing.
Never Again Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 Friends only works after a significant cooling off period. You are overwhelming her. She needs space. Back off. You told her what you want, including a possible future friendship. If she wants anything at all, she'll probably let you know.
Author Scoot Scoot Posted October 26, 2013 Author Posted October 26, 2013 fine you guys. so what should i tell her? goodbye? thanks anyways?
Simon Phoenix Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 fine you guys. so what should i tell her? goodbye? thanks anyways? Nothing. Just fade out. 2
Author Scoot Scoot Posted October 26, 2013 Author Posted October 26, 2013 Nothing. Just fade out. i'm in the middle of a text convo, that i initiated, wouldn't that be rude?
Simon Phoenix Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 i'm in the middle of a text convo, that i initiated, wouldn't that be rude? No. People stop texting each other all the time for random reasons. Stop looking for excuses to be a clingy doormat. 4
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 i'm in the middle of a text convo, that i initiated, wouldn't that be rude? Why are you texting her? 1
Author Scoot Scoot Posted October 27, 2013 Author Posted October 27, 2013 Why are you texting her? for a booty call.
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 for a booty call. Seems to be working
Author Scoot Scoot Posted October 27, 2013 Author Posted October 27, 2013 Seems to be working well actually it is, she said "bring the D tonight, no strings attached though." i was being sarcastic.
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