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should i give up, or pursue a reconciliation with her?


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my ex is angry with me for not giving her space. its been awhile since i contacted her. last time we spoke she was pretty pissed off, which is better than having indifference from her. we both were irrational, and said some things we didn't mean.

 

i admit, i've kinda been in NC, i look at her tumblr from time to time, and she still posts things about me. cause she knows i read it. she says how she wants me to prove my love, and to show how hard i'm willing to work for what i want...etc.

 

anyways, i'm thinking about contacting her, just to apologize for things i've done, and own up to my mistakes. i'm going to ask her if i still have a chance to make things right with us.

 

i really have nothing to lose, i don't see the harm in asking for a second chance. if she says no, i'm just going to let her go.

 

advice appreciated.

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Again, she asked for space, and you want to give her the opposite?

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Again, she asked for space, and you want to give her the opposite?

 

 

i gotta break the ice sometime. her posts have been bugging me, and i feel i need to do something about it.

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Again, she asked for space, and you want to give her the opposite?

 

Might as well lock down the thread. This is about the perfect response.

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i gotta break the ice sometime. her posts have been bugging me, and i feel i need to do something about it.

 

And this is why you shouldn't be stalking your ex on social media.

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I think that you should do what your heart tells you too...good luck...deb

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you already made up your mind and would not like to listen to any other opinion. what advice do you need? do what you want that makes you sleep better at night

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believe me i'm wishy washy on what to do. last time we spoke she texted me this.....

 

"this doesn't mean your job is done, it's just the beginning. You're job as a partner is to win your woman's heart and chase her everyday like its your last. When you know you have something good, you will have to work every day until you die to give back what she has dedicated her life to you."

 

i was at the point on cutting her out of my life until she told me that. it kinda made me realize things.

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Are you ok with the chance of hearing out that she slept around with other guys while on this break? Or that she is after another guy?

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Are you ok with the chance of hearing out that she slept around with other guys while on this break? Or that she is after another guy?

 

what kinda question is that? how would you think someone would feel

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seriously? threads after threads, one more ridiculous than another. .are you trolling?

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seriously? threads after threads, one more ridiculous than another. .are you trolling?

 

this is my second thread!

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what kinda question is that? how would you think someone would feel

 

If you dont want to feel that, dont contact her. Otherwise there is always that chance.

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believe me i'm wishy washy on what to do. last time we spoke she texted me this.....

 

"this doesn't mean your job is done, it's just the beginning. You're job as a partner is to win your woman's heart and chase her everyday like its your last. When you know you have something good, you will have to work every day until you die to give back what she has dedicated her life to you."

 

i was at the point on cutting her out of my life until she told me that. it kinda made me realize things.

 

She sounds like she's full of sh*t and high-maintenance. Consider this a bullet dodged if she's actually serious with that ridiculous text.

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She sounds like she's full of sh*t and high-maintenance. Consider this a bullet dodged if she's actually serious with that ridiculous text.

 

That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever read on here.... Just who the f does she think she is?

 

Run far and fast before she will hurt you again. She seems like a total bitch who doesn't know what she wants. If she does this **** to other guys, she will either end up old and single or end up with married to some ******* that will treat her like dirt....because she dumped every other nice guy that came around.

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She sounds like she's full of sh*t and high-maintenance. Consider this a bullet dodged if she's actually serious with that ridiculous text.

 

she was definitely serious. high-maintenance is correct. i got on her case about being so dramatic about everything, and always wanting attention.

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this is my second thread!

 

soon you will jave another thread: ex doesn't like the way I apologised. what should I say this time?

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That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever read on here.... Just who the f does she think she is?

 

Run far and fast before she will hurt you again. She seems like a total bitch who doesn't know what she wants. If she does this **** to other guys, she will either end up old and single or end up with married to some ******* that will treat her like dirt....because she dumped every other nice guy that came around.

 

you sound like my mom, no offense. but thats the same exact thing that she told me... she's going to end up marrying some douchebag, and realize that she dumped a good person.

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she was definitely serious. high-maintenance is correct. i got on her case about being so dramatic about everything, and always wanting attention.

 

If she's serious then be thankful you aren't with her anymore. I mean, that's one of the most egotistical, selfish things I've ever read. She sounds spoiled with a princess complex. Not sure how you can read that and want to get back with her.

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Not sure how you can read that and want to get back with her.

 

because some people are crazy and they fall for other crazy people. cant you see the OP is fully aware how crazy his ex is yet he loves her craziness to death.

we are wasting our time.

He needs a psychologist.

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because some people are crazy and they fall for other crazy people. cant you see the OP is fully aware how crazy his ex is yet he loves her craziness to death.

we are wasting our time.

He needs a psychologist.

 

we are both crazy. we watched Silver Linings Playbook on valentines day for crying out loud.

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we are both crazy. we watched Silver Linings Playbook on valentines day for crying out loud.

 

if you're not crazy then you must be trolling.

if you're crazy you two deserve each other. just crawl back to her

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Of course you should contact her....I mean it's not like it went bad the last 500 times you contacted her anything...

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if you're not crazy then you must be trolling.

if you're crazy you two deserve each other. just crawl back to her

 

i'm hella not trolling. would i be on a forum messing with ppl for kicks? i don't think so.

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i'm hella not trolling. would i be on a forum messing with ppl for kicks? i don't think so.

 

then you should try whatever you can to continue your perverted relationship with her, or seek a doctor to treat your mental illness.

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