jzlove Posted December 3, 2004 Posted December 3, 2004 How do you tell if it's love or lust? Is it a feeling? Is it only possible of knowing through time well-spent? What is it...? If you know that it's unlikely that you may have a future with this person, yet you still want them ... perhaps you get along well with them and that they have good personality, is it lust? But still should we in such unlikely cases just let it pass? Or do you strive for every opportunity until you sure it's 100% dead end? And what is it that makes you decide you want to go out with this person when there are so many possibilities out there? Cos... how many of you date with the bigger picture of MArrYing the person in mind? Feel free to just answer any of these... I'm just wondering...
Naive Posted December 3, 2004 Posted December 3, 2004 Even if you think it is lust you should give it a try. You never know until you try
Honesty Posted December 3, 2004 Posted December 3, 2004 As long as u feel happy nothing else should matter. if it's lust, enjoy it. if it's love, enjoy it!!!!!!!
Scott70 Posted December 6, 2004 Posted December 6, 2004 If you can think of this other person having sex with someone else and it doesn't upset you too much and you still want them, then it's lust. If they very idea of that person, having sex with another destroys you then is probably love mixed with a ****load of jealosy. If you can step back and want what's best for that person, whether it's you, or someone else, then it's love. If you figure out that it's love then don't let anything but a ring, or a restraining order stop you.
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