Kvd92 Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 I was dating a man for three years, a man that had never had sex! I took his virginity. he was a very old fashioned man, pride, modest, 21 and no one had ever touched him sexually until me. he believed strongly that sex was only meant for love and believed even more strongly that cheating was wrong! even thought strip clubs were a form of cheating. he was so good and innocent and had such great morals. He was such a gentleman and had great rare qualities He loved me a lot but at the end of our relationship i felt like we were in a rut and not going anywhere, he had no motivation in life for himself, he was too wrapped up in me, so i made th terribly tough decision to leave. I survived almost three months before needing him back. I've discovered he has had meaningless sex twice and hated it (didnt even get off) but also exchanged nudes with a 50 year old women and married women! I was shocked and appalled at this pig of a man i didn't know. 'aware that we were not together so he could do as he pleased but it was just SOO NOT like him and he confessed to feeling like a terrible horrible person the last few months and was only trying to get me off his mind at the advice of his work friend She continued to push him to have new sexual experiences even after he expressed how shameful he felt. She looked right passed the innocent gentleman he used to be, looked right past his rare awesome qualities and threw them in the trash Now that we are back together I asked that he stop seeking love advice from her because she only lead him down the wrong path and didn't know the man of morals i once knew. She gave him nothing but terrible advice that he always regretted so it only seemed logical he would stop seeking that type of advice from her. especially because she cant keep her relationships together either. His response was "she told me you would say that" and " I will not let you tell me who i can and cant talk to" to which i replied im not saying i dont want you being friends with her and i didnt "Tell" you anything He still refuses saying he will talk to her about me and us. Am i in the wrong? should i back off or be concerned? I mean I really don't care if they are friends but I think it's healthy for us if she stays out of our business unless until we are stable again but he's being all stubborn and you can't tell me what to do I won't be controlled blah blah... We are 23 and 24 years old and she is probably late 20s
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