Alpha11 Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 Hi, I am seeing a girl, and she told me she felt it was not going anywhere. I understand this, as I have not taken the next step. Hell, I was going to say the same thing to her in that it's going nowhere. That all makes sense. There are a number of issues, which we discussed. However, she did say I didn't mention hand holding as I expected you to take the lead. I felt like crap as I planned to do this, but I missed my oppurtunity. She says this should all be natural and not thought-driven (though I didn't say it should be). Now if I do make a move she may think it's all driven by regret. What do I do?
I-Love-Liberty Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 Don't be a beta male. Don't worry about how she might perceive little things like if you thought about holding hands or just did it. Who cares if you thought about it, you should think about it, think to yourself like "Hey I'm gonna hold this girls hand because I like her!" or just do it without thinking. Either way, just make your moves and don't hesitate. 1
todreaminblue Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 true that i love liberty ....you move dont think about it......or talk about it just do it....actions speak louder than regret...deb
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