Mayorwasp23 Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 I met her this last July. We got along great. We were both seeing other people. I was in a new relationship at that time maybe two weeks in. She had been seeing a guy for 6 mos. Eventually we both got out of our relationships and starting dating. On a note, on one of our first dates, we ended up running into her ex. She had to know her was going to be there. It should have been a red flag but things afterwards were fine. On September 20 we started dating exclusively, so the relationship was still new. She's 18, said she was a virgin and I'm 23. Because of our age gap and I have a bad habit of taking relationships too fast, I decided to take things slow. On first romantic date as a couple I over did it, held back too much. In the days afterward, she was hard to get a hold of, and when I do talk to her she acting cold. Then our next date was supposed to be romantic picnic and hike but she got a new job we only had 2 hours and all we did was walk in the park. My birthday was coming up and she told me that she had something special planned. I thought she was going to send something like a mug or ballons to my place of work but nothing. My birthday was on 10-4, I call her up and she says just says happy birthday. She had 10-4 and 10-5 off. I was going to go to my hometown for my birthday and she said that 10-5 would be a better day to say her anyways. It had been over a week since I seen my gf. I call her up on 10-5 and I hear about bunch of voices at her place. She says that some of her friends came in unexpectedly from college. I thought why couldn't she invite me over. She said to call her back around 9pm and she had to check her work schedule. I just let it out that I can never see her and if she's going to put her friends above her boyfriend then her and I through. She tried to call me and send me some text messages but I haven't checked them yet. At first I was feeling good about ending the relationship, but as the days go by I'm feeling terrible, like I made a big mistake. Was I wrong? Should I check and seen what she had to say?
cif Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 You did the right thing. She doesn't seem very devoted to you. Check the messages but you're better off just moving on.
barky2 Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 Honestly something seems way off You absolutely did the right thing Don't dig for information Just leave it be and find a girl who is completely opposite of her,because you don't deserve that Barky
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