lovekris16 Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 (edited) I work at a public Library. One of my patron’s who has made it clear that he’s interest in me has been trying for months to take me out or whatever. He leaves me little notes sweet notes around for me. He seems genuine, dresses really nice and seems to have a really nice personality. All my co-workers think he’s my kind of man. Every time he comes to the library he comes with this young lady. Now this guy he flirts and asked for my number in front of this young lady so I assume that they were nothing more than either just friends or she could be even his sister. Finally, after running into him at Wal-Mart I gave him my #. The pass few days we’ve been texting back and forth getting to know each other. Last night, I sent him a text and said “that young lady I see you with sometimes is she your girlfriend?” His answer “Sometimes”. My response to him was “I’m not going to disrespect another woman by texting her man” he respond back with “I understand” OMG, What was this dude thinking?!?! Edited October 9, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator fixed code
MrCastle Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 Maybe they have an open relationship and he's looking for a menage. Then again he said "sometimes" so maybe she's a glorified funk buddy.
HokeyReligions Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 I work at a public Library. One of my patron’s who has made it clear that he’s interest in me has been trying for months to take me out or whatever. He leaves me little notes sweet notes around for me. He seems genuine, dresses really nice and seems to have a really nice personality. All my co-workers think he’s my kind of man. Every time he comes to the library he comes with this young lady. Now this guy he flirts and asked for my number in front of this young lady so I assume that they were nothing more than either just friends or she could be even his sister. Finally, after running into him at Wal-Mart I gave him my #. The pass few days we’ve been texting back and forth getting to know each other. Last night, I sent him a text and said “that young lady I see you with sometimes is she your girlfriend?” His answer “Sometimes”. My response to him was “I’m not going to disrespect another woman by texting her man” he respond back with “I understand” OMG, What was this dude thinking?!?! Good for you! Its flattering to be found attractive but it sure sounds like you dodged a bullet. What a jerk. 2
Ruby Slippers Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 Good for you for having some principles and self-respect. He'd be dead to me from now on. 2
truth_seeker Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 He was hoping you were an idiot willing to hook up when he wanted some from you. Good for you dismissing him.
giblesp Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 He was another lost person looking for cheap sex. 1
crederer Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 The first paragraph I was thinking that you were paranoid. The last paragraph made me think you're desperate. In all seriousness, he doesn't sound like an exclusive long term kind of thing.
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