xXCountryXx Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 She said she wasn't interested because she's confused about her orientation. It makes sense looking back at her behavior, but how much of it should I take with a grain of salt? Part of me thinks this is just a shock factor "it's not you, it's me" response, but all the correlations to it being true are there. I guess I'm asking is how much crap would y'all call and ladies, have y'all EVER used this as an excuse? Or is this just not one of those things to use as an excuse to give to someone?
Heroeric Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 Well I'm not a chick so I can't answer that last part, but I can tell you that when a women is confused about her interests, best thing to do is just be as supportive as you can (easier said then done thats for sure). Gotta look at it from her shoes, if you were confused with what you liked it would be really conflicting to a relationship, the stress alone is enough to make them lose passion. I was in a long term relationship with someone who came out to me as really a man in a women's body, we stayed together through that regardless simply because we were serious and I loved unconditionally. But seeing all the stress he went tthrough, I could tell it was ruining his world. Sure this situation is different, but in essence its very similar because self identification on any topic can be very stressful, and unless your relationship was long term and serious it is sometimes for the better.
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